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If you, hypothetically, had a teenager who was dating

And hypothetically they had a girlfriend, and that hypothetical girlfriend had a Facebook page that wasn't set to private, would you even consider, hypothetically of course, looking at her page and possibly formulating an opinion about her before you ever even, hypothetically, met her?
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Re: If you, hypothetically, had a teenager who was dating

  • Probably..... No, I would def. look! I am super nosey!
  • I would love to say no but I am super nosy. I would have looked already. :)
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  • Definitely! 

    Hypothetically - of course.  Wink

  • If it's public, it's your right to look. I love finding public pages--it's like free candy! I'm the queen of nosiness, though.
  • Dude, that's what facebook is for! Wink

  • I would have already checked her out.
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  • imageLeisureSuitLauren:

    Dude, that's what facebook is for! Wink

  • Hypothetically, absolutely yes, but I google people who respond to my craigslist post.
  • Of course!  And I already would be questioning her since her page wasn't private.  Stick out tongue
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  • imageDandelionMom:
    Of course!  And I already would be questioning her since her page wasn't private.  Stick out tongue

     

    This.  I'd judge her parents for not making her keep it locked down, too.

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    Hellz yeah!

    Heck, I want to check out  YOUR son's hypothetical girlfriend! LOL!

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  • I honestly never thought to do it with my SDs BFs and she is 21 now.  But I say go for it but one question, if you see something you do not like such as drinking, smoking, sexed up pics, etc will you be able to keep your mouth shut or are you comfortable talking to him about it without him being furious?
    Jen - Mom to two December 12 babies Nathaniel 12/12/06 and Addison 12/12/08
  • imageLittlejen22:
    I honestly never thought to do it with my SDs BFs and she is 21 now.  But I say go for it but one question, if you see something you do not like such as drinking, smoking, sexed up pics, etc will you be able to keep your mouth shut or are you comfortable talking to him about it without him being furious?

    We have a very open rapport. We had an incident with him drinking last summer and he knows what the consequences are for something like that. I don't live in a cave, and I know that kids are going to do stuff that is frowned upon, and sometimes even illegal, but he is a very level headed kid and is generally open to having heart to heart conversations about these types of things. 

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  • Under 18 in my house requires I have your login info and at my whims will go through any accounts such as facebook and email. This would include the handing over of any phone at any time I ask knowing I will go through any and all texts and/or pics.

    Let's just say my kids will not get away with anything as a teen.

    I asked my mom once if she knew that I had done certain things, she said, yes she knew at the time- I asked why she didn't stop me- her answer- I had to learn on my own, ummm no, you were suppose to be a parent! Not let me go off in cars with boys to places you knew I wasn't suppose to be!

  • imageEmiliana7:

    Under 18 in my house requires I have your login info and at my whims will go through any accounts such as facebook and email. This would include the handing over of any phone at any time I ask knowing I will go through any and all texts and/or pics.

    Let's just say my kids will not get away with anything as a teen.

    I asked my mom once if she knew that I had done certain things, she said, yes she knew at the time- I asked why she didn't stop me- her answer- I had to learn on my own, ummm no, you were suppose to be a parent! Not let me go off in cars with boys to places you knew I wasn't suppose to be!

    Absolutely! And we do just that occasionally and have called him out on a few things that required further explanation. Especially after the drinking incident last year.

    Ridley Run 3.1 - 4/9/11 - 34:24 - 1st race evah!
    Kelly Monaghan's 5K - 5/15/11 - 3rd Place in AG
    Walk the Talk 5K - 5/18/11 - 31:12 PR
    Ridley Run 3.1 - 4/14/12 - 1st race of the year, 32:45
  • Please.  Like you even have to ask.  I'm nosy.
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  • I didn't even finish reading your whole post before I was screaming Yes! in my head.

     so, hypothetically, have you checked it out yet?

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  • I hypothetically could have my little cousin give me info on the hypothetical girlfriend if  said hypothetical girlfriend happens to go to the same hypothetical high school as your son and my cousin because they just might be in the same hypothetical class.
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  • imageMeliss227:
    I hypothetically could have my little cousin give me info on the hypothetical girlfriend if  said hypothetical girlfriend happens to go to the same hypothetical high school as your son and my cousin because they just might be in the same hypothetical class.

    LOL Except she is in a different district Stick out tongue 

    Ridley Run 3.1 - 4/9/11 - 34:24 - 1st race evah!
    Kelly Monaghan's 5K - 5/15/11 - 3rd Place in AG
    Walk the Talk 5K - 5/18/11 - 31:12 PR
    Ridley Run 3.1 - 4/14/12 - 1st race of the year, 32:45
  • imageMominator:

    imageMeliss227:
    I hypothetically could have my little cousin give me info on the hypothetical girlfriend if  said hypothetical girlfriend happens to go to the same hypothetical high school as your son and my cousin because they just might be in the same hypothetical class.

    LOL Except she is in a different district Stick out tongue 

    Where is his loyalty??? 

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    "There comes a time in life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh, forget the bad, and focus on the good. So love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living."
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