Community› The Bump Message Boards› Secondary IF
Secondary IF
New Discussion

OK, I'll give.....

tosh24tosh24 member
in Secondary IF

(Just as a preface, I didn't want to keep a secret from any of you ladies, but I know this board is a safe haven for all of us and I certainly didn't want to be insensitive and make this an uncomfortable place for you to be yesterday, Amanda, when you needed our support :)

Well, I got my BFP on Wednesday night! I have no freakin' clue how this happened. I've mentioned it a couple of times, but DH and I were on a break cycle and only managed to have sex on CD 9 and CD 10. I think the leftover meds in my system from last month caused me to O extremely early this month (I usually O on CD 14 or 15 but think it was more like CD 11 or 12-ish this month). I obviously can't confirm this because I didn't temp or do OPKs, but I was suspicious based on my CM. I'm curious how they'll date me at the u/s.

I still have trouble believing it. I drove like a maniac to have my beta done yesterday morning and it came back at 460!!!! Beta #2 is on Monday. I am hoping that everything goes smoothly. I only tested because I was on my way to acupuncture and wanted to make sure that I wasn't KU so that she could do her usual fertility points. I hid the pee stick in the medicine cabinet so DH wouldn't see it and accuse me of being neurotic since we thought this cycle was a bust. When I looked at it, there were two dark lines. A FRER and a digi confirmed the results!

I am so grateful for every one of you on this board. The amount of support and caring you all show for each other is amazing. It amazes me how a bunch of internet strangers can care so much about each other, like the best of friends. I hope that I can stick around and cheer you all on, because I genuinely want to see you all with a BFP and offer whatever support I can along the way. Thank you all, times a million <3

Much Love,

Tosh

Me: 35 I DH: 38
*TW loss and children mentioned*
DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

TFAS since 2012

Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

Report Reply to Post

Re: OK, I'll give.....

  • Ready2bMommyReady2bMommy
    Wonderful news!! Congratulations and H&H 9 months to you!
    Lilypie 1st Birthday Ticker Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
    Report Reply
  • kellyjg123kellyjg123
    Ok tears in eyes! Oh my goodness what a blessing.  Congrats to you and wishing you the happiest and healthiest 9 months ever!  Wish I could give you a congratulatory hug in person!
    imageBlog Lilypie Third Birthday tickers Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • AmandaMacDAmandaMacD member

    FINALLY!  CONGRATS LOVEY!  Party!!!

    I didn't want to reply on TTTC b/c I never post there, but I was waiting ALL DAY for you to come over and share. 

    As sweet as it is of you to think of me, I feel absolutely terrible that you didn't want to share your amazing news b/c I had a shitty day.  This is your home and we all want you to go on and have a beautiful little bundle in 9 months.  You deserve this so much sweetie and just because I had a craptastic day, or if anyone else did for that matter, you should not be deprived of your awesome announcement. 

    I am beyond thrilled for you and look forward to you sharing this part of your journey with us! 

    Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers
    image
    Doriimage
    "Just keep swimming, just keep swimming..."
    Report Reply
  • gatorsinlovegatorsinlove member
    Congrats!
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • tosh24tosh24 member
    imageAmandaMacD:

    FINALLY!  CONGRATS LOVEY!  Party!!!

    I didn't want to reply on TTTC b/c I never post there, but I was waiting ALL DAY for you to come over and share. 

    As sweet as it is of you to think of me, I feel absolutely terrible that you didn't want to share your amazing news b/c I had a shitty day.  This is your home and we all want you to go on and have a beautiful little bundle in 9 months.  You deserve this so much sweetie and just because I had a craptastic day, or if anyone else did for that matter, you should not be deprived of your awesome announcement. 

    I am beyond thrilled for you and look forward to you sharing this part of your journey with us! 

    Please don't think that I was being deprived of making my announcement - I do not want you to feel terrible about that at all. There was always an opportunity for me to share in the next day or two, and I made the decision to wait because I wanted to (not because I felt like I was forced to). You have been so supportive to me and everyone else on this board through our ups and downs, that the last thing I wanted to do was to hurt you when you were already feeling down. I knew that you would be happy for me, I just wanted to give you your space yesterday. I wanted to be a good e-friend Smile

    Thank you so much for the well wishes!

    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

    Report Reply
  • Stacy092306Stacy092306 member
    Congratulations!  That is wonderful news!
    image
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    TTC #2, Operative hysteroscopy March 2011; IVF #1 long lupron protocol April 2011-cancelled due to poor response; IVF #2 flare protocol May 2011=hospitalization due to abdominal hemorrhage during ER and no fert due to MFI issues. Moving onto international adoption from Moldova January 2013!
    Report Reply
  • Persephone0024Persephone0024
    Congrats that is wonderful news! .I was on a break cycle and the other day got a surprise BFP out of nowhere as I was about to start provera to bring on another cycle! I am extremely cautious however and not about to get my hopes up unitl another couple good betas.
    Baby Birthday Ticker TickerBabyFruit Ticker TTC since 1/10 DX PCOS Early 2010: 3 rounds of Clomid 50mg, 100mg, & 150mg. responded to first cycle, but all BFN summer 2010: break 10/10: 100 mg Clomid cancelled due to no response 11/10: RE consult: begin Metformin 1500 mg + I month BCPs 12/10: 100 mg Clomid + Hcg + TI + progesterone = BFN 1/11: 5 mg Femera + Hcg + IUI + progesterone = BFP!!! 2/21/11: beta # 1 116 2/23: beta # 2 57 =2/25 m/c 3/2011: break cycle 3/30/11: surprise BFP! beta #1 =36 beta #2 4/1/11= 87 beta #3 4/5/11= 701 4/20/11: US hb found @ 6w2d
    Report Reply
  • PixiestxPixiestx
    What great news!! Also a really familiar story since I got pg from ovulating really early on a break from treatment and only tested b/c I was about to go to acupuncture.  Best of luck for a nice high beta on monday!
    Brenna Married 4.30.05

    Mom to Teagan 4.11.07 and Cora 9.30.11

    imageLilypie Fifth Birthday tickers

    Lilypie First Birthday tickers

    D&E @ 22w 9.30.09 CMV infection BFP 10.15.10 C/P 4w4d

    Report Reply
  • jen-dalejen-dale member
    Congratulations! What amazing news!
    Oct 2008 m/c #1 5 weeks, May 2009 m/c #2 4w5d. BFP 6/23/09 EDD 3/8/10!
    You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. -Eleanor Roosevelt
    After 1 year of TTC#2 BFP May 2011 m/c #3 4w2d. Off to RE.

    Round 1: Femara + Ovidrel +TI = BFP! EDD 2/20/12
    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    2IF does not always equal 3IF...Surprise!
    Lilypie Maternity tickers
    Report Reply
  • jennykg1477jennykg1477
    Congratulations!!!!
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • tosh24tosh24 member

    imagePixiestx:
    What great news!! Also a really familiar story since I got pg from ovulating really early on a break from treatment and only tested b/c I was about to go to acupuncture.  Best of luck for a nice high beta on monday!

    Oh my goodness, you're kidding!?! I can't believe the similarities in our stories! I did know about you getting pregnant during a break cycle, but the other stuff being the same too is crazy!

    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

    Report Reply
  • choirgirlchoirgirl

    OMG, AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!

    I'm so happy for you, Tosh, I can't stand it!

    With DS, we got pg with early O on break cycle, too.  Hmmm, maybe this gives me hope for this current cycle (breaking from Femara) :)

    Anyway, OMG Congratulations to you!!!

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • DSU98DSU98
    Congreatulations that is wonderful news.  I got pg on break cycle too last time!!!  It is a shocker!
    Alyssa born 6/14/05 at 8 lbs 2oz - Ashley born 3/27/10 at 6 lbs 13oz
    We had 2 years of IF trying to conceive #2 and one loss during that time. We are currently trying for #3! had another loss the end of June
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    Lilypie Kids Birthday tickers Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
    Report Reply
  • RMR13RMR13 member

    imagekellyjg123:
    Ok tears in eyes! Oh my goodness what a blessing.  Congrats to you and wishing you the happiest and healthiest 9 months ever!  Wish I could give you a congratulatory hug in person!

     

    This exactly, crying at the keyboard! Congrats!!!!

    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers Lilypie Kids Birthday tickers
    Report Reply
  • hayleydeeehayleydeee member
    Congratulations!
    Married 07.07.07. Mom to 3: Ruby 11/08 and Oliver & Austin 12/11
    Report Reply
  • tosh24tosh24 member
    Thank you all so much for your love and support. I truly do cherish it :)
    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

    Report Reply
  • hope4ushope4us member
    Congrats!  What great news! 
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker imageimage
    TTC #2 since Nov '07
    Tried 4 cycles of Clomid, TI, Gonal-f, and IUI's - all BFFN's
    Both tubes removed Nov '09
    Low AMH = 0.3
    IVF #1 for Feb '10 - cancelled due to poor response - Gonal-f and Repronex
    IVF #1.2 for June '10 - Gonal-f, Menopur, and micro Lupron
    ER - 6/19 (2 retrieved), ET - 6/22 (1 transferred with ICSI), Beta 7/5 = BFFN
    IVF #2 for Nov '10 was cancelled due to poor response - Follistim, Repronex, and micro Lupron
    IVF #2.2 for Feb '11 - Gonal-f, Repronex, and Ganirelix
    ER - 2/24 (8 retrieved), ET - 3/1 (2 transferred with ICSI), froze 3, Beta 3/11 = BFFN
    FET - 4/19 (3 transferred), Beta 4/28 = BFP, EDD 1/4/12
    Report Reply
  • JMayJMay member

    I'm so happy for you!!! Congratulations and HH9M!!!

    P.S. Please post your Monday beta numbers - looking forward to your journey!  Big Smile

    Doriimage
    "Just keep swimming, just keep swimming..."

    Miracle DD born 12.2005
    TTC #2 since Dec 2008 w/ PCOS
    ***P/SAIF Always Welcome***

    Keep it Natural, Baby!
    Report Reply
  • queenbonequeenbone member
    Congratulations!
    Married 9-4-04

    ***PM me for my IF history***

    Lilypie Kids Birthday tickersLilypie Kids Birthday tickers
    Lilypie Fifth Birthday tickers
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"