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IVF #1 = BFN

Olive44Olive44 member
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+
I'm finally getting the courage to write this out.  I POAS over the weekend and found out our IVF didn't work, which was confirmed on Monday with blood work.  Devastating.  I was pretty shocked considering everything seemed to be perfect, and my RE told me after my ET that in cases like mine, 9 times out of 10 the patient ends up pregnant.  Well apparently I'm the 1 out of 10 that it doesn't work for.  The plan moving forward is to do Depot Lupron for 2 months, which is supposed to help endo patients with implantation, then do an FET in June. 
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  • EntropicEponaEntropicEpona member
    Oh Olive, this just isn't right. I'm so sorry, sweetheart. So very sorry. Broken Heart

    12 long, hard years of TTC-
    Miscarriages, losses, lots of treatments & drugs & IVF


    Natural BFP (WTF?!) - 06/04/11 ~ lots of complication and drama, but sweet baby Adele born 02/07/12!

    BFP #million -another girl for us! EDD - 05-08-15 (but will come early)

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  • suntotosuntoto member
    Oh Olive, I am so very sorry. 
    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    I'm so sorry. I will keep my fingers crossed for your fet cycle.

    Jenn

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    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • Rawr08Rawr08
    I am so so sorry.
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  • babygirlpriestbabygirlpriest
    I'm so sorry you're on the shiity end of the % game. Huge hugs love. I hate this!!
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  • jolieandscottjolieandscott
    I'm so, so sorry.
    BFP #1: 5/3/10 Natural MC: 5/11/10 BFP #2: 3/24/11 C/p: 3/29/11 BFP #3: 5/17/11 C/P: 5/20/11 BFP #4: 11/13/11 Daisypath Anniversary tickersImage and video hosting by TinyPic imageImage and video hosting by TinyPic ~*~Congrats to my TTCAL buddies toshbosh233 & clairenmonique, EDDs 4/2011; bekahjen, EDD 5/2011; MCH77, EDD 7/2011; HokieMomma, EDD 8/2011; shanna82, EDD 9/2011; Rachel4127, EDD 10/2011~*~
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  • JuJuBe3JuJuBe3

    I'm so sorry it didn't work this time.  I hope the FET goes well.  Huge hugs during this hard time.

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  • lunatwolunatwo member
    I'm so sorry. 
    4/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    8/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    3/09 Polyp removed and dx MTHFR (both copies)
    6 Clomid cycles, all BFN
    5/09 IUI#1 with Clomid=BFN
    6/09 IUI#2 with Clomid=BFN
    8/09 IUI#3 with Clomid=BFN
    IVF#1 = BFN
    IVF#2 = BFN
    IVF#3 ET 2 Grade A blasts 11/16/11
    Beta #1: 485
    Beta #2: 2,495
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  • biddy53178biddy53178
    Oh I'm so very sorry-big hugs to you and your DH.
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    I'm so sorry.
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  • ade2beade2be
    I'm so sorry hun.
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  • KelinandKevinKelinandKevin member
    I am so, so sorry.  Hugs to you!  Crying
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  • GuppyAmyGuppyAmy member
    I'm so so sorry. IF sucks so so much. Your plan sounds promising though. My RE was telling us how some women do better with FET because the lining can build up too much during IVF. Good luck!
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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    I'm so sorry hon. It just isn't fair. ((hugs))

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
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  • Fififa21Fififa21 member
    I?m so sorry :-( Big hugs to you.

    BFP #1 4/22/10 MC 5/5/10 (6w4d) EDD 12/25/10
    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
    BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

    BFP #5 8/22/13 Lucia Elizabeth born 4/17/14 at 38w
     
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  • ColindaPColindaP member
    ::passes the vodka::

    Fvck this noise.
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  • cutebride73cutebride73 member
    I am really sorry.  It is devastating when you work so hard and do so much and it doesn't work out.  (((hugs)))
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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member
    I'm so sorry. I really was hopeful that it would work. I hate this.
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  • millejj1millejj1 member
    I'm so so sorry. Hugs
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  • heathergirl67heathergirl67 member
    That is so disappointing. I am so sorry for you. I really hope the FET works.
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    (((HUGS))) I'm so sorry.
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
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    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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  • LilMaggsLilMaggs member
    I'm so sorry, hon. *huge hugs*
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  • csquared426csquared426 member
    Oh Olive, I am so, so very sorry.

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  • Court1Court1
    Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry :(
    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
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  • rjl07rjl07

    I'm sorry Olive.  I hope things go well with your FET. 

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