BFF TTC need to tell about BFP

Gen & Joel

Need to tell on of my BFF's who is TTC that i'm pregnant! i'm so nervous it's making me sick to my stomach!

lilitaliangirl

She'll be happy for you. Don't stress. My BFF told me she was pregnant when I'd been trying for 6 months. There was a small sting, but I was still very happy for her.

Shayna0182

Congrats!  If it were me, I'd call her.  That way, she can have whatever reaction to it she wants, once she hangs up.  It might give her hope, but then again she might be sad that she hasn't had her bfp yet. 

mara005

I'm sure she will be happy for you, true BFFs will always be happy about babies.

I also agree that you should call her, that way she can react how she wants after you're done talking. 

vmm0016

I had to do this with my SIL and it was horrible.  She had been trying for 3 years and had a couple miscarriages.  I had been trying for 2 years.  Phone call seems the way to do it.  She was happy for me but upset that she hadn't got her BFP!  Low and behold, 6 months later she got hers!  Our girls are 6 months apart and it is great!

Gen & Joel

thanks Ladies i did it and she handled it better than i thought! i just hope she's ok now that we r off the phone

lindylogana

I had to do this a couple weeks ago.  My BFF has been TTC since DD was born (so almost 15 months).  She had a look of shock on her face and didn't really react at first.  But later on she sent me a text "congratulating me" and apologizing for her reaction.  And now she's all excited.  Good luck hope it goes well.