well that was a quick DD

MayorMcCheese000

Ignorant post with ignorant f/up, I'm glad it's gone I guess.

justEK

I missed it!

jettagurl

I was thinking ahead.  Here ya go...

 

mabrown8Joined on 07-15-20104 Posts90 PointsNot sure if this is right place to ask an opinion on this...I am a first time mom to my 2 month old daughter. I am obsessed, doteing and so in love with her. I am so happy. But. I am still working on bringing her out and about and i know I need to get used to it, but it has to be me who does it, well with the father who is here with us. Happy family for sure. But I am one of those moms (not sure if there are many) that hates being told what to do or not do and be treated like im clueless... and almost... like she isnt mine. Her grandma, the dad's mom, just stormed out our place with his dad, grandpa, because we were mad that she brought him over drunk to meet his granddaughter. He started arguing with his son, the dad, while we were finishing dinner. Telling him hurry up i need to talk to u, i mean honestly saying it like a little boy who needs punishing. As if a grown mad with his own new family needs parenting? Why did he do this? because grandma told him their son sucks lately, and we dont come over to visit with the baby enough. We have seen his family more then anyone else! thats the truth. And because when she was feeding baby and baby wouldnt eat i said she not used to stranger feedings. you know, she is used to mom and dad feeding her only still, she is 2 months! And meanwhile the drunk grandpa was cursing and yelling now, typical drunk. so they left. I know i could have explained the feeding thing better without using the word stranger, but am i wrong to be upset the drunk man came in my home belittle the father of my child and grabbing my baby! and the grandma yelling at us standing by his behavior. Now matter who was in the wrong, was that a way to act around a baby?  and am i wrong that we deserved to parent our own child as we see fit, which by the way in all honesty she is a healthy happy baby, hardly cries and has yet to puke! anyway, i know this is random but i just feel like it was wrong for grown people to act that way and put my baby in it and to try and parent people who are parents themselves and dang good ones! does anyone get what i mean? amd i horribly wrong. i do feel bad about using the word stranger but yelling, cursing and heavily drunkeness by my baby? ReportBlockReplyQuoteContact03-29-2011 at 11:03 PMsooosieJoined on 01-12-2005WI3,552 Posts7,434 PointsUmmmmm....... what?
Kings of the Hill ReportBlockReplyQuoteContact03-29-2011 at 11:06 PMsummerbrid...Joined on 12-12-2004South Bay, NorCal6,829 Posts15,258 Pointsokay--first, paragraphs and sentence structure are your friends; use them. Second, why are these people even allowed in your home?!Third, how old are you?  ReportBlockReplyQuoteContact03-29-2011 at 11:07 PMjettagurlJoined on 08-01-20035,175 Posts45,557 PointsI got pretty lost in all that.  BUT....your child + your house = your rules. You decide who can come to your house and be around your child.  make your SO/H tell them the deal - his family means he deals with it.  And don't be hermit.   Benjamin 4.23.06 *** Natalie 11.29.07 *** Elijah & Gabrielle 9.5.09 
IHO My baby turning 5 soon.... 
 ReportReplyQuoteDeleteEditContact03-29-2011 at 11:15 PMmabrown8Joined on 07-15-20104 Posts90 PointsMy apologies. I was writing this frantically and while still very much angry. I am 25, and yes, college educated. I was really just very upset. Actually I work in a law firm. Basically, family came into our home drunk, yelling and with our daughter right under their noses. All the while they acted as though we needed a good talking to; as if we dared to not come to their house enough when we have made them always welcome to come to our home. Until now. They are not welcome any longer. I just can not believe she allowed this drunk man over without warning us, as well, I am upset by her tendency to act as a second parent to us and our daughter. ReportBlockReplyQuoteContact03-29-2011 at 11:17 PM<img border="1" style="border-top-width:1px;border-right-width:1px;border-bottom-width:1px;border-left-width:1px;border-top-style:solid;border-right-style:s

JellymanKelly

I'm amused by the fact that she thinks his parents should stop trying to act like they're his parents. Inappropriate drunk behavior aside, this chick needs to decompress a bit.1