I was really disappointed when I found out that I have fertility issues, because it's just made it that much harder to give my husband a baby without his knowledge. I've been trying to screw up his life for the past 2+ years, and I just haven't been able to do it. I want a baby, so he must want one too right? And if he doesn't, well that's just too freakin' bad, he'll just have to live with it.
No I know my bf loves kids and stuff, so it would be totally great. I can't wait to see what our baby will look like! And then maybe we can finally move in together and his stupid ex girl will get the point.
Okay Man Trap, there is a book I think will help you a ton. It's called "He's Just Not That Into You".
The next thing I would do, is finish all of your high school classes. Maybe even take an extra English class. It will come in super handy in life.
Lastly, actually wait to see if your BF asks you to move in together. (Of course assuming your parents would approve of this). Cause, honey, I promise you...if he doesn't want to live with you, he for sure doesn't want to have a baby with you.
Course, if you don't want to do all that...you could just actually ask him if he would like a super secret surprise baby.
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definitely deception!! If you even think you want a baby with this guy, best to move in together FIRST and try living together for a while. And definitely discuss your plans with him before getting KU, because if he finds out you had it planned all along he should be kicking your a$$ to the curb real quick. That's just wrong on many levels.
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Re: Anyone TTC as a surprise
I was really disappointed when I found out that I have fertility issues, because it's just made it that much harder to give my husband a baby without his knowledge. I've been trying to screw up his life for the past 2+ years, and I just haven't been able to do it. I want a baby, so he must want one too right? And if he doesn't, well that's just too freakin' bad, he'll just have to live with it.
OMG TOTALLY!!!
BAHAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! Best. PIP. Ever.
7/30/12 - B/G twins born at 33w4d due to PPROM
This is going to haunt my dreams tonight. :::shudders:::
LOL This!
Okay Man Trap, there is a book I think will help you a ton. It's called "He's Just Not That Into You".
The next thing I would do, is finish all of your high school classes. Maybe even take an extra English class. It will come in super handy in life.
Lastly, actually wait to see if your BF asks you to move in together. (Of course assuming your parents would approve of this). Cause, honey, I promise you...if he doesn't want to live with you, he for sure doesn't want to have a baby with you.
Course, if you don't want to do all that...you could just actually ask him if he would like a super secret surprise baby.
Woah, best post EVER.
OP you are full of Fail.
First of all.... we are WOMEN... not girls.
Second... having a baby as a "surprise" is NOT a good idea. It is a life long dedication that you can't just surprise someone with.
Third... if you ARE 17... finish school, get married then TALK to your husband about children.
This is just MO
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