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anneannabellanneannabell
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so i have a beautiful almost 3 year old son who we got pg with one an IVF cycle.  Now we have been trying for 5 months and no luck.  My husband only wants to try till June and i am getting so discouraged.  It isn't as painful at the 2.5 years we tried to get pg with our first but it just is a reminder that i cannot have a baby as easily as so many ofther people out there. 

I promised myself i would not get obsessed, discouraged or dissapponted with ttc #2 because we know it is a long shot naturally but it is so hard to not get emotionally involved.  DH does not want to do any IF treatment because he saw everything i went through before, the shots, the side affects of the lupron, etc. 

I know i am ranting and just venting but i just have to vent to someone.  and i came back to the bump website where i have not been to since ttc #1 because i know there are many others like me out there and i guess i just wanted to vent to someone that would understand.

thank you for letting me vent.  :) 

 

Anne

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  • sgrobstesgrobste member
    I totally understand your frustration..my DH and I have been trying since March of 2008...we ended up getting pregnant after one round of clomid and sadly lost that baby.  That was in March of 2009 and here we are today, still trying...this is such an emotional ride...Take care
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  • jen-dalejen-dale member
    It is really hard when our bodies won't do what we want them to. I'm sorry you are going through all of this.
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  • AmandaMacDAmandaMacD member
    Vent away.  That is what we are here for. This whole process is beyond frustrating and unfortunately so many of us understand all too well. 
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  • JMayJMay member
    Welcome, and please let it all out.  We all do!  
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  • hope4ushope4us member

    Ditto the other moms.  Vent away...we all know this is a very frustrating process.

    Anyways welcome to the board!

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    IVF #1.2 for June '10 - Gonal-f, Menopur, and micro Lupron
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    IVF #2 for Nov '10 was cancelled due to poor response - Follistim, Repronex, and micro Lupron
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  • pharmacygirlpharmacygirl
    Im so sorry to hear you have to join us. Vent away. We all totally know how you feel. Hopefully your stay here is short.
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  • anneannabellanneannabell

    Thanks so much for all your support!   I greatly appreciate it.

     

    What a wonderful group of ladies we got here.  :)

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