Please post updates below. Please include any upcoming big appt.?s like betas and IUI?s, ER?s or ET?s and FET's. Feel free to include any events you want some GL vibes for. Check-ins will be on Mondays & Thursdays.
WELCOME to?
GOOD LUCK & PPV to ?Bella2u07 (beta on Wed), Edwina (double-surge vibes), scooterq (stimming), 07may07 (beta#4)
CONGRATULATIONS to? so1966 (matched with a baby boy due in April)
BIG ((((Hugs)))) to 07may07, Rachael070707, militarywife2b
QOTD: HELP!!!! Please PM me or post some ??s you would like to ask the group. It?s hard to come up with questions all the time
It?s the first day of Spring! What?s the weather like where you are? What are you looking forward to this Spring?
Members:
*NestingAway* - DH varicocele surgery coming up
07may07 ? IVF#4, 2ww
1RisingSun?on a break
Abbe17 ? IVF#2, 2ww
Anasara ? IVF
bbakersgirl75- IVF#2 in Feb/Mar
Bella2u07 ? IVF 1.2, 2ww
beth&anth
bmbeck6614 (Manda)?IVF #2 BFFN, On a Break
BBLindy?
Bradbride -
Bridetobein05 ? BFN
Butterfly843? looking into adoption
Catery18 ? on break trying to get healthy before next cycle
cmwbobo (Colleen)-onto IVF #4, started stims
danni225 ? on break
Echloe ? FET BFP
Edwina.McDunnough ? IVF#4
Fthtrstnpxiedst (Brandi) ? surprise BFP
gidge ?IVF, on lupron
Ginger71 ? looking into DE
Harley12 ?FET
hillaree ?IVF#3 BFN
hollymichael ? chose a donor, April cycle
hoping4more ? on break, licensed for foster care, matched
hopkintonbride- IVF#1 in process
Imanurse03 ? chose an egg donor
jackiemac824 ? FET
Jannasmith ? OHSS ET cancelled
jenbabe ?IVF#2
jennylryan
jenyodi ? 2ww IVF#2
jlcrane78 ? WTF 2/28
JnJ62406 -
kammy
ked1068 (Kristen) ? DE FET in April 4/1, patches
kekis ?
kellymsb
Kimmilou?
KissyFaceKate ? deciding next steps
Koyn ? deciding on next steps
lmhsju ? m/c after break BFP
Liturgicalgirl (Kathleen)?
lmu2005 (Leslie)?cycling unmedicated
Luvie13 ? IVF #2
Madelyn07 ? on break until June/July
MarriedaSportsNut ? deciding next steps
militarywife2b? foster program/domestic adoption, IUI w/ Injectibles
missred75 ? next steps
mjm579 ?
Morgan2004--
Mrs.CMX ? consulting with new RE?s
Mrs.P7/15/06 ? IVF coming up
Mrsmiller12012007?
Mrs.Voz ? IVF w/ current clinic w/ diff RE
patchen30 ? FET BFP
PoeticJustice ? IVF#2 c/p
psychmusetls ? 6 month break
rachael07.07.07 ? deciding next steps
roxydaisy (Tricia)? IVF #1, c/p
Saratogabride08 ? IVF
schlud01 - IUI
scooterq ? IVF stims
so1966?Adoption ? matched!
Stace26 (Stacey)?IVF #2 on stims
steveandkim2 ? FET, BFP
sweetdahlia ? hema appt 4/12
sweetky_06 ? getting 2nd opinion 2/3
Sunshine05 ? femara and TI, BFP
toriwc
theworms--- FET, on BCP
trippleb ? IVF#2 c/p
wewannababy ? IVF#4
BFPs or Adoptions!:
katerena ? IVF #2 BFP
cbubbles2 ? IVF#2 BFP
Amers8301 ? BFP
Romeo&Denise ? BFP
Tarahville/BathinginBitter (Tarah) ? BFP
sun,moon&stars ? DE IVF BFP
lmc5004 ? FET BFP
NewMrsW
rachel06 ? FET BFP!!
Njohnson1972
katieranck2202 (Katie) ?brought home a little guy
AuburnBride06 ? it?s a boy!!!
K827- BFP!!
Miesl ? BFP!! Twins
svp1537 ? BFP!! It?s Twins!
flutterby918 ? break cycle BFP
Missy0708
justsayjo ? it?s a girl
miamicubajam ?IVF BFP ? twins!
MontyMrs ? BFP! Boy X3
chaucer ? IVF ? BFP!
Merrymarissa ? break cycle BFP ? It?s a girl!
Newsbaby ?IVF#4 boy/girl twins
4510Heather- IVF#1, twins
juliannat- IVF w/DE,boy/girl twins
MrsAMR ? boy/girl twins have arrived
Lovemymonkey (Rose)? Surprise BFP ? it?s a girl
Kiki11 ? mom to baby boy
m&m2006?IVF#7 baby girl is here J
DMD1029 ? BFP!
DrLoretta ? brought home baby girl
PeachyKate (Kate) ? mom to baby boy
smeyer (Shannon) ? Boy/Girl Twins
kfbny
OrangeSmoke
DHelenL9
BRSaugust20 (Beth) ? Mom to baby boy
smilee- Mom to baby boy
LNLE ? Mom to Trips
Superned
vandalay
CBL
igh0318 (Kim) ? mom to baby boy
Kimberic (Kim) ?Twin Girls J
Ke11y
Tryingtogetpregnant (Jenny) ? mom to baby boy
PreheatetOven ? Boy/Girl Twins
firemansflame
KoCoLoCo
kristinamh6 (Kristy) ? mom to baby girl
cjsbdl (Charla)
MonkeysGirl05 (Sam)
t.bird (Trina)
duke'sgirl (Rebekah)
Mrs. Babbsy- ID twin girls
Littlemac4
Finallyreilly
Mybobble
Leslie75
CardsfanSM(Stacey)
abcteach
LBR_NJ
Epphd
Meechrobi
krissyh21
Cndalessandro (Cassie)
JamaicaMon (Ashley)
Honeygram (Michelle)
If you are thinking about asking to join this group?please read:
This is an Advanced TTTC group those who have been trying 3+ years and/or have multiple failed IUI?s /IVFs, etc. I just ask that everyone please use good judgment when asking to join...in other words, if you are still in the IUI stage or have been on this journey less than two years, this is probably not the group for you.
There is no doubt that this whole TTTC process is painful, but I also do believe that there is a very special kind of support that this specific group can offer to each other, and it is intended as a "safe haven" for those of us who are in that bottom 1% of the bottom 1%.
Thank you!

Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles,
It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
Courage doesn't always roar.
Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)
It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
Re: Advanced TTTC check-in
Good luck to Bella, Edwina, scooterq, 07may07
Congrats to so1966
Update: Nothing
QOTD: Wow, I totally forgot it was the first day of spring. Doesn't really seem like it since we've been in the high 80s, low 90s for the past month. The weather this weekend was awesome..I got a great tan and DH's games! I'm looking forward to the weather getting [even] warmer (I love me some hot, hot, hot weather) and hopefully getting to go to more AU baseball games.
TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs
Good luck to Abbe19 (beta 3/22), Edwina, Scooterq and 07may07
Congrats to so1966
BIG (((HUGS))) to 07May07, Rachael070707 & Militarywife2b
Update: Today I am 7dp5dt (beta 3/23) and having a lot of conflicting feelings about this cycle...more on the negative side...no real reason for me to believe it won't work.....maybe it's b/c BFNs are all I am use to, so what makes this any cycle any different? Ugh!
QOTW: Today - It's raining and in the mid-40's I think. Looking forward to our cruise in 17 days, flowers/leaves growing and more sunshine!
7 IUIs = All BFNs
2011: March IVF #1.2 = e/p @ 6w: May IVF #2 = BFN: July sFET #1 = BFN
2012: Jan We're Certified FC/A Parents
May IVF #3 = c/p
June-Nov Foster Mommy to M (Toddler)
July FET #2 = BFN
Aug FET #3 = BFN
Sept-Nov Foster Mommy to Baby Bella (Newborn)
Nov HSG/Sono = Clear!
Dec FET #4 = BFN
2013: Feb FET #5 = m/c @ 6.5w
May-July Foster Mom to H (8 yr old girl)
June/July/Aug IVF #4 = Freeze All
July = Unofficially Adopting T (10 yr old boy)
Sept FET #6 = TBD
**PAIF/SAIF Welcome**
Good luck to Bella, Edwina, scooterq, 07may07
Congrats to so1966
Update: Setting up consults for DE.
QOTD: It's rainy and cold. BUt looking forward to longer days(light wise) and trees budding.
GOOD LUCK bella, scooter, 07may07 !!!!!
CONGRATULATIONS so1966 !!!!!
BIG HUGE HUGS 07may07, Rachael, and militarywife
QOTD Rainy, mid 50s. I'm looking forward to seeing some green!
UPDATE Tomorrow I have an ovary check and a pre-op. THANKS for all the surge vibes! I need to do so by Wednesday or my lap/coculture schedule will be sub-optimal and possibly screwy. I also started seeing an ME and am taking Synthroid to get my TSH levels down.
Good luck to Bella, Edwina, scooterq, 07may07
Congrats to so1966
Hugs to anyone who needs them.
Update: IVF #1 has been pushed back to June; see blog (link in siggy) for details).
QOTD: It's lightly snowing out after being 70 degrees on Friday; go figure! I'm most looking forward to the IF NYC GTG on 4/10!
GOOD LUCK & PPV to ?Bella2u07 (beta on Wed), Edwina (double-surge vibes), scooterq (stimming), 07may07 (beta#4)
CONGRATULATIONS to? so1966 (matched with a baby boy due in April)
BIG ((((Hugs)))) to 07may07, Rachael070707, militarywife2b
Update: I haven't updated the check-in since my horrible WTF appointment. We have decided to take a few months off to regroup. We plan to cycle again and do PGD in mid-July.
QOTD: It?s the first day of Spring! What?s the weather like where you are? What are you looking forward to this Spring? It looks like spring around here. It's cloudy and a little cold. We're supposed to get rain a lot of the week. I am looking forward to being able to exercise outdoors again. It will be good for both me and the dog!
GOOD LUCK & PPV to ?Bella2u07 (beta on Wed), Edwina (double-surge vibes), scooterq (stimming), 07may07 (beta#4)
CONGRATULATIONS to? so1966 (matched with a baby boy due in April)
BIG ((((Hugs)))) to 07may07, Rachael070707, militarywife2b
QOTD: I'm in the NY area and it's cooold and rainy. I'm looking forward to being able to go outside w/o a jacket and w/o freezing my a$$ off...
TTC in 2008. Stage II/III endo, Hashimotos hypothyroid, low morph (3%).
2 cycles Clomid/Ovidrel/TI/Crinone=BFN.
IUI #1 - 4 Follistim/Ovidrel/IUI/Crinone = BFN.
IVF #1 - Antagonist w/ ICSI 4/10. 17 retrieved, 5DT of 2, BFN
IVF #2 - Long Lupron w/ ICSI 6/10. 15 retrieved, 3DT of 2, BFFN!!
Lap 7/21/10
IVF #3 - Clomid/Antagonist w/ ICSI 10/10. 14 retreived, 3DT of 3, BFP 10/20 but m/c. No HB 11/15/10 - D&C 11/17/10.
FET - 2 blasts, 1 survived the thaw. Transfer 2/19. Beta #1 3/1 375, Beta #2 3/3 885, Beta #3 3/8 4261, Beta #4 3/11 9005. U/S 3/8 1 sac 1 yolk, U/S 3/16 1 heartbeat 114bpm!
James born Oct. 24th 2011 via c-section at 38 weeks!
Surprise BFP - Jack born April 28, 2013 via VBAC after PTL at 33 1/2 weeks!
GOOD LUCK & PPV to ?Bella2u07, Edwina, 07may07
CONGRATULATIONS to? so1966
BIG ((((Hugs)))) to 07may07, Rachael070707, militarywife2b
QOTD: It?s the first day of Spring! What?s the weather like where you are? What are you looking forward to this Spring? The weather here was so crazy today. This morning it was chilly raining and hailing. Then it cleared up and ended up getting up to about 70 degrees! I'm most looking forward to the nice weather and baseball opening day
Update: Triggering tonight and ER on Wed. Please let IVF#3 be our lucky charm!
GOOD LUCK Ladies!!!! Bella2u07 (beta on Wed), Edwina (double-surge vibes), scooterq (stimming), 07may07 (beta#4)
CONGRATULATIONS to? so1966 - that is very exciting news!
BIG ((((Hugs)))) to 07may07, Rachael070707, militarywife2b
QOTD: It is gorgeous weather - a little chilly in the morning or shade. Although I can't seem to get used to getting up in the dark
Update - My iron is really turning around! My hemaglobin is just under normal limits, and my shape, color, and size aren't quite right. BUT my iron store is up to 135 from 4! I am now down to every other week for infusions and if things look good on Friday, I'll probably come back in a month.
I went to the enocrinologist for my 3 month check up - my TSH is down to 1.5 - so half way there
Dr. is concerned about my [ginormous t-word that just means excelled heart rates] - sorry can't remember. evidently it's a s/e of the synthroid but because i have two heart conditions she wants me to get checked with my cardiologist. she said definitly a halter monitor (which i've done before, no big deal) but then she asked me if i've ever been cathed. um no, and i don't plan to be. not happy by that suggestion. cross your fingers that my cardiologist doesn't agree!
and my "back" is stil hurting but much better than friday. thanks for the well wishes ladies
Tara & Dave - TTC since September 2006
PCOS - dx 1999 (amenorrhea) | freakishly long fallopian tubes
Hypoglycemic | thyroid issues | severely anemic
Multiple Clomid cycles of 50, 100, 150 - absolutely no response
Follistim 50/100 | Follistim 75/125 | Follistim 100/150 IUI - all BFNs
Converted IVF - BFP - m/c | FET - BFN | IVF #2 = BFN
IVF #3
GOOD LUCK & PPV to Bella2u07, Edwina, scooterq, 07may07
CONGRATULATIONS to? so1966 (matched with a baby boy due in April)
BIG ((((Hugs)))) to 07may07, Rachael070707, militarywife2b
Update on me: For the first time in all my IVF cycles, I had a 3 day transfer on Sunday morning. Embryos were not the best quality (they were okay) and they decided since my embies don't like going out to blast in culture that we would put them back in on day three and hope for the best. We had 1 grade B embryo and 5 grade C embryos and 1 grade d embryo growing... all the rest had arrested. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that this works, but I'm having a hard time being positive. Why can I make so many damn eggs, but have such crappy embryos? I need some positive vibes and growing embie vibes!
We have a meeting with another adoption agency april 13th, but will most likely go with the first agency we checked out.
I love working in the garden in the spring and beginning to grill outside. Right now it's been rainy and cold, but hoping it warms up in time for my bday (april 3rd)
Jenn
IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN
Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10
BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11
Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11
my blog
Good luck & hugs to those that need them!!!
Update: Beta today. Currently waiting to hear. Have not tested at home.
QOTD: It was really nice over the weekend but it is cold today and we are expecting tons of snow tomorrow!! Spring is a slow process in Buffalo.
SAIF/PAIF Always Welcome!
TTC #1 May 2008
6 Rounds Clomid, 1 Round Femera-BFN
4 IUIs (1 Clomid, 1 Femara, 2 injectables)-BFN
February 2010-Laparoscopy
4 months of Lupron
August 2010-IUI #5-BFN
October 2010-IUI #6-BFN
IVF #1 November 2010-BFN
IVF #2 March 2011-BFN
Good luck to Abbe19 (beta 3/22), Edwina, Scooterq and 07may07
Congrats to so1966
BIG (((HUGS))) to 07May07, Rachael070707 & Militarywife2b
Update: I'm still stimming :P I'm waiting on my bloodwork to come in to see if I'll need to wait another day to trigger or if i need to do that tonight (my follies aren't quite the size they'd like). I'm hoping we can do something with the follistim I have left because I don't want to buy more Repronex! Not sure why my ovaries are being lazy this cycle.
QOTD: It's cloudy and chilly this morning but it's supposed to get into the upper 60's
But then it's supposed to storm 
We're on to IVF. We've been TTC for 6 years now. Wasn't sure what the issues were at first. It's hubby's count, etc. Can't get prego naturally or with IUI. Moving onto IVF and have an appt. in April with new RE.
Lots of baby dust to all of you!
Cheryl