So, have you cheated in your current relationship-clicky

Littlejen22

B/c I took Bubbly's post to include old relationships
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J&A2008

I explained mine below.  Dirty texts/chats, and just in the beginning of DH's and my relationship. 

cooker71

LOL...what's up with the "no way, how can you even post this" votes?

*GASP* *clutches pearls*  

Obviously this is happening given the responses to Bubbly and D&R's polls. What's so bad? It's an interesting followup question.

BubblyToes

Sexting is emotional.

Zenya

cooker71:

LOL...what's up with the "no way, how can you even post this" votes?

*GASP* *clutches pearls*  

Obviously this is happening given the responses to Bubbly and D&R's polls. What's so bad? It's an interesting followup question.

The problem is there's not 'no' option in the poll.  Only the pearl clutching one.  I'm not clutching my pearls at all.  But cheating is a million miles from my reality right now.   I mean ME cheating on DH.

cooker71

Zenya:

cooker71:

LOL...what's up with the "no way, how can you even post this" votes?

*GASP* *clutches pearls*  

Obviously this is happening given the responses to Bubbly and D&R's polls. What's so bad? It's an interesting followup question.

The problem is there's not 'no' option in the poll.  Only the pearl clutching one.  I'm not clutching my pearls at all.  But cheating is a million miles from my reality right now.   I mean ME cheating on DH.

Ha. Good point! 

sooosie

I only picked the 'no way' gasping one because there was no straight up 'no' option.  But yeah, no cheating here.

J&A2008

BubblyToes:

Sexting is emotional.

I think it depends on how you do it.  Mine was def. not emotional.  I wasn't really tied to the guy at all, except he was someone I once knew IRL.

Zenya

I've been thinking about it though and one of the many reasons I wouldn't cheat is that my husband would NEVER take me back.  Never ever.  I'm confident that any deliberate transgression on my part (even if it wasn't physical) would be the end of us.  

J&A2008

Zenya:

I've been thinking about it though and one of the many reasons I wouldn't cheat is that my husband would NEVER take me back.  Never ever.  I'm confident that any deliberate transgression on my part (even if it wasn't physical) would be the end of us.  

Yep.  DH laid that down pretty clearly early on.

JenniC1135

I said it in the earlier thread, but my physical cheating was about 10 years ago, when we were dating exclusively but not engaged.  Since then, there've been "Hey, how are you?" emails that DH wouldn't be happy about, just because he knows my history.  But in the grand scheme of things, they've all been innocent and if I didn't used to suck at fidelity, they wouldn't be an issue.

Littlejen22

BubblyToes:

Sexting is emotional.

I guess I did not think of it that way but I am sure if I found out DH has sexted that I would feel that way...and I have never done it.  I guess I was just thinking that someone was sexting but not emotionally connected to the person.

Littlejen22

cooker71:

Zenya:

cooker71:

LOL...what's up with the "no way, how can you even post this" votes?

*GASP* *clutches pearls*  

Obviously this is happening given the responses to Bubbly and D&R's polls. What's so bad? It's an interesting followup question.

The problem is there's not 'no' option in the poll.  Only the pearl clutching one.  I'm not clutching my pearls at all.  But cheating is a million miles from my reality right now.   I mean ME cheating on DH.

Ha. Good point! 

I only worded it that way to be funny, I am not clutching my pearls or anything.