I checked out the Ferber book from the library a while ago, but of course now I can't remember the details of the suggested wait times to check on LO. I know you can make up your own wait times and Ferber's aren't set in stone, but does anyone remember what they are, or do you have the book handy? Last night we did 2, 4, 6, and 8 minutes. I think it goes up to 3, 5, 10, 15? Thanks.
(P.S. We only had to go up to the 4 minute check before he fell asleep for the rest of the night. I'm crossing my fingers that tonight goes as well.)
Re: Ferber wait times?
I don't have the book in front of me but if I remember correctly, the 2nd night you wait longer before the 1st check and then longer b/w the checks. So tonigiht, I'd do 4, 8, 12.
I just wanted to say: good luck tonight!
sleep training vastly improved our lives & I hope it does the same for you & your husband!