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Start being nice
I am disgusted by what I am seeing on this site. The first tri and up to this point I have been happy with this blog. Pregnant women helping, advising and being kind to other pregnant women. People post on here because they are scared, need reassurance, need advice, or just need to vent. I think this expression MUD needs to stop. How dare we judge one another for posting what they are experiencing, no matter the post or how ridiculous it is. START being NICE to EVERYONE!! We are grown women how dare we treat one another this way! Not everyone is rude but I have seen too much to stay quiet.
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Re: Start being nice
Well if these people are in fact bogus posters, the best way to really get them stirred up is to IGNORE THEM!! Whenever I click on a post that seems to be asking for drama it gets a roll of my eyes and I close it. Who has that much time on their hands?
And thank you OP, well said, I'm all for behaving like a grown woman
This is not the puppy and rainbows board and I do not have to be nice or support every act of stupidity or ridiculous in the world, especially not on a message board. Furthermore, I don?t? think there is anything about someone being pregnant that means I have to treat them with kid gloves.
buy yourself a giant pair of Big Girl Panties and suck it up sister.
You spoke too soon. OP, I wish a c-section on you. There.
SInce you seem to think this needed to be posted on two boards, I'll return the favor and repost my response:
In your own words:
If a women does not want to go through labor and delievery naturaly and they think they can just have a C-section they shouldn't be getting pregnant. Sorry but thats the way I feel.
Yeah, you're just full of peaches and sunshine. Guess that whole "don't judge others for what they are experiencing" only extends to those you personally agree with, huh?
You need to get way, way over yourself.
I think your first mistake was thinking that this was a blog. Sorry you don't like it here. No one is forcing you to stay.
Mmmm...cake!
Spend 10 minutes 'round these parts and you'll learn that it's not in the nature of the tri boards for people to be nice all the time. Take it or leave it.
1) This is a message board, not a blog.
2) You obviously have not been around long enough to know how these boards work.
3) Yes we are grown women so we are allowed to say what we feel. We are not in elementary school where "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all".
4) Do you even know what MUD is ?!?!?!?
5) If you can't deal with people who have different opinions than yourself, this may not be the place for you. We tell it like it is and do not blow smoke up people's @sses just to tell them what they want to hear.
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." -- Dale Carnegie
"Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time." --Thomas A. Edison
Weren't you the one running through the miscarriage board, asking those grieving ladies a bunch of painful questions.....then posted again how everything was normal with you and wished them all luck? Not cool.
I saw that!! Not cool at all.
This!
This is not a blog, it is an online forum.
Blog : a Web site that contains an online personal journal with reflections, comments, and often hyperlinks provided by the writer.
If you don't like it here, feel free to hit the red X and head over to www.Baby-gaga.com .
You seriously did this? What type of person does that. You want to talk about being nice then at the very least you need to leave those women alone.
That is quintessential douchbaggery!
In my bag: Nikon D90; 35mm 1.8, 90mm 2.8 macro (my fave), Lensbaby Composer with macro extensions. BFP after 13 cycles and one ectopic. Lost left tube 5/19/10.
It's a good thing you said something! Now everyone on this board is going to be super nice to each other because of your post!
(sarcasm)
Those are just some of the reasons. Some people post here for entertainment and other reasons. That includes scoffing at silly posts like yours. I think you are a troll stirring up MUD yourself!
DMoney will be a kickass big sister
This thisthisthisthisss. Exactly. Beautifully said, Mrs. Mo.
LOL. I love how it's coming out that the OP is a giant twatwaffle.
Sarahjack...
Sarah - 12/23/2008
Alex - 9/30/2011
"I say embrace the total geek in yourself and just enjoy it. Life is too short to be cool." - Shirley Manson, Garbage
Sarahjack, this is where I judge you and I think that you are behaving like a piece of shiit. How dare you go over to the loss board and do that to them? They are going through enough & they don't need you probing their wounds with your questions. ESPECIALLY, if you are going to be like, "alright well I know you all are in the throes of agony unimaginable, but I'm doing super. kthanxbai." is insensitive & rude.Shame on you. Then you come on here lecturing us all to be nice to you? Sickening.
It is completely stupid to expect people to buy anything for you yet. Isn't it a little gift grabby when it appears that you have more than one kid? I don't know you rub me the wrong way, and I really think you should step away from the keyboard for a while. Anything else I want to say would get me banned and you are not worth it. Get some help.
LOLz @ the .gif
Ditto! I aspire to be as amazing as Ari Gold.
Is this MUD? It has to be. No one is that stupid.
Mabenner, Mrs_B,