Potty Training Rut

jgilesslp

So DS was doing great with potty training and then he started withholding for some reason.  I ended up giving the diapers back (encouraged him actually) because no constipation "cures" were working...he knew when we had something in his drink,e etc. to soften stools, etc.  and he actually got hemrroids from pushing so hard to try to get hard stools out.  When do I push (or not) the pooping on the potty again.  Also, those with boys, how are you dealing with hurrying to get off the potty before finished and not holding his male part down.  He knows what to do and can do it...he is just getting lazy and therefore messy!  Finally, does getting to the potty on time just come with time?  Lately he is having accidents because he waits to long to get to the potty.  TIA!