I DD'd. I know you'll understand.

MerryLegs

I think OW might be on here. I can't be sure, I don't want to accuse and no she didn't reply in any of my threads. But I am cautious enough to DD. 

I'll try to keep updating but deleting as I go. Alternatively PM me. Probably this login as I'll try to keep this separate from my old self as much as possible.

Thanks girls. If you spot anything suspicious please PM me. I would not cope very well with OW turning up on here I suspect. Might lead me to inflict some serious damage on her (which I could) but which would ruin any chance I have of saving my marriage. So I'm trying to avoid the temptation. 

belle204

It's understandable. But how would she know you're on here? You're stronger and more admirable than I am. I don't think he deserves any more chances & I want to kick his butt for you. I do have a vacation coming up if you want said butt-kicking to occur.

Ebeth_in_ATL

I caught up a little last night.  I'm so sorry you are going thru this.  You seem to be a very strong woman and I know you will make all the right choices.  Good luck.

 And I hope she isn't on here.  Do you think she's always been on here (coincidence)?  Or do you think she came here to stalk you?

J&A2008

I'd hope for your sake she isn't on here either, as you don't need the drama or intrusion.  A small part of me wishes she could read what you're going through, though, as I'd hope that any person with even the tiniest shred of humanity or sanity would feel for you and realize how horrible it is to mess with someone's marriage.  But I guess if she had either she wouldn't have done it in the first place.

rebs

I hope she isn't here, I think you need this place to vent and get support.  I am so sorry for your situation, I hope it all improves soon. Try to stay strong, good luck!