How many should we get? Can they be washed with the diapers? Also, any brand suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!

Babywearing, cloth diapering, formula and breastmilk feeding, still can't believe I'm a mom, momma to my little man, two furbabies, and two angel babies.
Re: Cloth Wipes
There's a great cloth wipe FAQ here: https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/48380458.aspx
I originally had 12, and found that not to be enough. I have about 30 now and it's a pretty good number for us. They are mostly all one layer wipes, so for poopy diapers I end up using 2-3.
They can be washed with diapers, yes. A whole extra loads just for wipes would be madness! haha
I know a lot of women just make their own simple ones, rip up old receiving blankets, or use cheap washcloths and what not, but I like the cute Etsy ones I find. My favourite sellers for wipes are PrettyPrinted, TurtlesRUs and KBExquisites.
[color=#FF0000]Mom to 5 girls 23,22,18,9,7 and one sweet Wonderboy almost 4[/color]
The Chaos of Six!
I would say a good amount is 24+ (you can never have too many). I think I have about 36 or so. That has been plenty for now. We wash ours right with the diapers.
My absolute favorite are Sewing Mom Just Accessories Etc. (SMJAE) but she is closing down shop. I also like quilter's nappies. Another bumpie recommended sweetbobbins on etsy - which I might try if I ever need to pick up some more.
BFP #1 9/7/10, EDD 5/14/11, Violet born 5/27/11.
BFP #2 4/9/12, EDD 12/16/12, M/C Rory 4/24/12.
BFP #3 10/6/12, EDD 6/16/12., Matilda born 6/17/13.