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Emmy1982Emmy1982
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My ex and I have been through a lot or I should say he has put me through a lot.  During my pregnancy he wasn't the nicest person and I fell out of love with him.  Well, to be honest I fell out of love the moment he showed me who he truly was.  He lives in another state.  Is it wrong to say that I am glad he is there and not here?  Is it wrong to NOT want him around?  I thought I knew him and he was a good man but he isn't.  He is supposed to come see his son at the end of the month and wants to reconcile but I don't know how many times to say it isn't going to happen.  We got into an argument a few days ago regarding our relationship and he was disgustingly ghetto about the situation.  What is the best way to tell someone that you DO NOT WANT TO BE WITH THEM EVER AGAIN?
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  • fromthewombfromthewomb
    Say just that. Tell him that his true self reared it's ugly head, and you do not feel like are compatible with him anymore. Keep it short and simple. 
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  • katieisawesomekatieisawesome

    imageEmmy1982:
    My ex and I have been through a lot or I should say he has put me through a lot.  During my pregnancy he wasn't the nicest person and I fell out of love with him.  Well, to be honest I fell out of love the moment he showed me who he truly was.  He lives in another state.  Is it wrong to say that I am glad he is there and not here?  Is it wrong to NOT want him around?  I thought I knew him and he was a good man but he isn't.  He is supposed to come see his son at the end of the month and wants to reconcile but I don't know how many times to say it isn't going to happen.  We got into an argument a few days ago regarding our relationship and he was disgustingly ghetto about the situation.  What is the best way to tell someone that you DO NOT WANT TO BE WITH THEM EVER AGAIN?

     

    My XH isn't even a terrible person and sometimes I catch myself thinking it would be easier if he had just disappeared and I didn't have to share my daughter and see him every week.

    I think it's normal to feel that way.  If you don't think reconciliation is possible, then just be firm and clear and take care of yourself and your child first and foremost. 

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