WWYD?

PrincessFiona9

DB was released from jail not long ago, and I found out he's staying at a druggie's house downtown. His sister is lying for him and saying he's staying with her. Should I call his PO and tell them? I feel like I won't sound credible since I don't know the last name of the guy he's staying with, and I don't know the actual address. Should I just save the evidence I have and wait until we have mediation to bring it up?

haleyw458

I'd wait. Since you really don't have much to go on, they probably wouldn't do anything about it or even document it.

CPA04

I'd wait.  At least at mediation you can flat out ask him where he's living and assuming your lawyers are there, he should be giving an honest answer.  At that point, reassess telling the PO.

PrincessFiona9

Thanks ladies. I was thinking this would be best also.

I dread the day I have to sit at a table with him to try to come to an agreement.

katieisawesome

I'm going to disagree with PP here.  I would try to verify the information, and if true, I would let his PO know.  He is violating his probation by being there I assume, and if he is willing to violate his probation, he is probably not a great person to have around your child.  If no one tells, no one knows. 

bradyg927

katieisawesome:

I'm going to disagree with PP here.  I would try to verify the information, and if true, I would let his PO know.  He is violating his probation by being there I assume, and if he is willing to violate his probation, he is probably not a great person to have around your child.  If no one tells, no one knows. 

I agree.  Try your best to verify any information you can.  Then let his PO know.  Is there any way his PO can go investigate his sister's home for evidence or lack there of, of where he might really reside?

achase123

I am not sure that they would take the information or not but I would say it's always worth a try.