FFFC!!!!!

DarthNBJenni

And go!

haleyw458

I got nothin. My life is so boring.

ShanJosh777

I couldn't even stay away from FB for a full 24 hours.

I really don't feel like working today, so I'm hoping someone posts something juicy to keep me entertained.

dimake

I have a date tomorrow night!

DarthNBJenni

ShanJosh777:

I couldn't even stay away from FB for a full 24 hours.

I really don't feel like working today, so I'm hoping someone posts something juicy to keep me entertained.

How's this for juicy?

I'm heading to a work conference this weekend. There is one male attending who has slept with 3 of the 8 women going. I'm hoping for some drama - either a cat fight, or all three ganging up to tie him to a bedpost in red lacy drawers.

achase123

DarthNBJenni:

How's this for juicy?

I'm heading to a work conference this weekend. There is one male attending who has slept with 3 of the 8 women going. I'm hoping for some drama - either a cat fight, or all three ganging up to tie him to a bedpost in red lacy drawers.

That would be hysterical!  Lots of drama and raciness for school workers!

Here's mine: J texted me Wednesday after I told him Friday night to go to helll (after he showed up on my doorstep drunk looking for a bootie call at 1:45am).  He was like "just to be clear, you don't want to hear from me anymore".  I wanted to not respond or just say "yup" but I said "you're confused and we're better off as friends".  He said a bunch of stuff back in a couple of texts about how he wasn't confused, etc and I probably found someone else and how he was sorry for everything.  I just so wanted to go off on him but I didn't.  I just replied "no worrries".  It felt good to take the high road but damn I didn't want to.

Oh, and I may have kissed a 21 YO last Saturday night.

AmandaJordan1985

achase123:

DarthNBJenni:

How's this for juicy?

I'm heading to a work conference this weekend. There is one male attending who has slept with 3 of the 8 women going. I'm hoping for some drama - either a cat fight, or all three ganging up to tie him to a bedpost in red lacy drawers.

That would be hysterical!  Lots of drama and raciness for school workers!

Here's mine: J texted me Wednesday after I told him Friday night to go to helll (after he showed up on my doorstep drunk looking for a bootie call at 1:45am).  He was like "just to be clear, you don't want to hear from me anymore".  I wanted to not respond or just say "yup" but I said "you're confused and we're better off as friends".  He said a bunch of stuff back in a couple of texts about how he wasn't confused, etc and I probably found someone else and how he was sorry for everything.  I just so wanted to go off on him but I didn't.  I just replied "no worrries".  It felt good to take the high road but damn I didn't want to.

Oh, and I may have kissed a 21 YO last Saturday night.

Love it!

I'm going to my friends wedding in 3 weeks and she purposely sat me at a table with a single friend of hers. While I don't have any interest in dating, a little makeout session would be nice - just sayin. (yeah, i'm 26 and said "makeout", don't judge lol!)

achase123

AmandaJordan1985:

I'm going to my friends wedding in 3 weeks and she purposely sat me at a table with a single friend of hers. While I don't have any interest in dating, a little makeout session would be nice - just sayin. (yeah, i'm 26 and said "makeout", don't judge lol!)

NO one is judging Flame Free-remember? 

I think making out is good harmless fun.  I obviously don't have a problem with it.  I say DO it!

Meliss227

So I went to the Dr the other day for my yearly and she said she needed to do a STD test because something didn't look right. I had that done when I first found out I was pregnant back in 11/09 so is it even possible to have something that wouldn't have shown up then? And the last time I was with anyone was the ex on 2/14/10. I don't know what's worse, the last time I was with someone or the fact that she was testing me.

achase123

Meliss227:

So I went to the Dr the other day for my yearly and she said she needed to do a STD test because something didn't look right. I had that done when I first found out I was pregnant back in 11/09 so is it even possible to have something that wouldn't have shown up then? And the last time I was with anyone was the ex on 2/14/10. I don't know what's worse, the last time I was with someone or the fact that she was testing me.

Oh no!  Was your ex unfaithful?

Meliss227

achase123:

Meliss227:

So I went to the Dr the other day for my yearly and she said she needed to do a STD test because something didn't look right. I had that done when I first found out I was pregnant back in 11/09 so is it even possible to have something that wouldn't have shown up then? And the last time I was with anyone was the ex on 2/14/10. I don't know what's worse, the last time I was with someone or the fact that she was testing me.

Oh no!  Was your ex unfaithful?

I honestly don't know. I never found anything but he had plenty of times he could have. He likes to read what I write on here so maybe he could answer that question.

momranda

BD's mom wanted a picture of J today, so I sent one of him spitting up. This is what she gets for asking for several pictures a day.

PrincessFiona9

I have been making my BF wait for sex. I told him it's too early for me to do stuff like that, but really I have had my ONS's and skank-ho days that he has no clue about. He thinks I'm such a goodie-two-shoes

I also told him I just started the BCP so I wanted to be on it for a few months till it's most likely to be more effective. He is actually going to wait until May to get physical. It makes me like him more because he's sweet and doesn't pressure me, BUT I feel less attracted to him because he's too wishy washy/submissive haha.

alibabbbs

Meliss227:

So I went to the Dr the other day for my yearly and she said she needed to do a STD test because something didn't look right. I had that done when I first found out I was pregnant back in 11/09 so is it even possible to have something that wouldn't have shown up then? And the last time I was with anyone was the ex on 2/14/10. I don't know what's worse, the last time I was with someone or the fact that she was testing me.

That's the last time I had sex too!!!

I think I've completely forgotten what it's like.

PoundCake

On monday the H was texting me that he had to move because he had no money since our modification hearing isn't until the 21st.  He got fired in November and his new job pays 8.00/hr less.  So he asked for money back.

I have no problem with the modification but since I got left with all the bills and have more bills than him, I really couldn't afford to give him any.  Plus I know it pretty much was going to be for drugs.  But I gave it to him on the off chance it would go for rent or his car payment.  But really inside a part of me figures I can use this to my advantage somehow during the visitation when it comes up.

BMenz

SO was over earlier this week. DS was watching Cars in the living room so we took advantage of it. Wellllllll in the midst of said sloring, the door opens, there's some giggles and ds goes "what are you two doing in here?!" (as he turned on the light) and we both replied "cuddling" and ds goes "ohhhhhhhh i see, ok" and went back watching Cars.....that happened another 2 times

nanabanana06

I got my tax return back today. I blew 700$ in less than a 12 hour period >.<. Though, in my defense I was planning on spending the money I did for each item. Also, most of my purchases were for DD. I finished her CD stash, got her some bigger clothes, and stuff for our trip in 2 weeks. I had budgeted all of it. Even the beginning of my tattoo that I'm getting next week lol. 

BMenz

Nana_Osaki06:

I got my tax return back today. I blew 700$ in less than a 12 hour period >.<. Though, in my defense I was planning on spending the money I did for each item. Also, most of my purchases were for DD. I finished her CD stash, got her some bigger clothes, and stuff for our trip in 2 weeks. I had budgeted all of it. Even the beginning of my tattoo that I'm getting next week lol. 

lol oh that's nothing.....I spent $6400 in a matter of minutes. *sigh* I needed a new car because mine was run into the ground. It was sad watching that money leave my hands even though I love love love my new car 

blondnearby

tifanico:

BMenz:

SO was over earlier this week. DS was watching Cars in the living room so we took advantage of it. Wellllllll in the midst of said sloring, the door opens, there's some giggles and ds goes "what are you two doing in here?!" (as he turned on the light) and we both replied "cuddling" and ds goes "ohhhhhhhh i see, ok" and went back watching Cars.....that happened another 2 times

Why didn't you stop after the first time? 

Yes, this. 

alibabbbs

BMenz:

SO was over earlier this week. DS was watching Cars in the living room so we took advantage of it. Wellllllll in the midst of said sloring, the door opens, there's some giggles and ds goes "what are you two doing in here?!" (as he turned on the light) and we both replied "cuddling" and ds goes "ohhhhhhhh i see, ok" and went back watching Cars.....that happened another 2 times

This creeps me out.

ShanJosh777

alibabbbs:

BMenz:

SO was over earlier this week. DS was watching Cars in the living room so we took advantage of it. Wellllllll in the midst of said sloring, the door opens, there's some giggles and ds goes "what are you two doing in here?!" (as he turned on the light) and we both replied "cuddling" and ds goes "ohhhhhhhh i see, ok" and went back watching Cars.....that happened another 2 times

This creeps me out.

Same! I know this is supposed to be flame free, but seriously? I can't imagine having sex while my son was awake in the next room. Much less continuing after being caught. Ick.

Meliss227

alibabbbs:

Meliss227:

So I went to the Dr the other day for my yearly and she said she needed to do a STD test because something didn't look right. I had that done when I first found out I was pregnant back in 11/09 so is it even possible to have something that wouldn't have shown up then? And the last time I was with anyone was the ex on 2/14/10. I don't know what's worse, the last time I was with someone or the fact that she was testing me.

That's the last time I had sex too!!!

I think I've completely forgotten what it's like.

I'm pretty sure I have no idea what its like anymore. And I don't think it will be happening anytime soon :-( 

achase123

ShanJosh777:

alibabbbs:

BMenz:

SO was over earlier this week. DS was watching Cars in the living room so we took advantage of it. Wellllllll in the midst of said sloring, the door opens, there's some giggles and ds goes "what are you two doing in here?!" (as he turned on the light) and we both replied "cuddling" and ds goes "ohhhhhhhh i see, ok" and went back watching Cars.....that happened another 2 times

This creeps me out.

Same! I know this is supposed to be flame free, but seriously? I can't imagine having sex while my son was awake in the next room. Much less continuing after being caught. Ick.

Yah, I'd opt to wait until he was asleep...I could maybe understand the first time.  That could be Flame Free.  But going ahead and continuing after TWO more times?  Yah.....that's pretty flameable.

BMenz

*shrug* some of you find it "ick" but it's really not the end of the world. he came running back to my room right after he went back out into the living room so it's not like we were *actually* in the midst of having sex...

All of you who find it "ick" really say/feel that they will never have sex when their kids are awake/go back to it after you've been caught? i don't buy it.

when the mood strikes, it strikes and you're going to take advantage of it especially when you (normally) don't have the time. as single parents I would think that you understand how sex gets pushed to the back burner because of everything else that we have to do. 

I don't find what I did, wrong or ick, I actually found it really funny. It's inevitable that you're going to get caught at least once when our lo's are growing up (this was the first time it has ever happened). You have to go with the flow and not let it bother you.

r9stedt

Hey, I understand how it is to have a BF and a kid.   It is fun because during they honey moon stage you just can't keep your hands off each other!

I also understand that the mood might strike while the kid is awake.   Yes, we have had sex while L is awake, but, with the doors locked.    Intimacy is an important part of my relationship with the BF, but 98% of the time it happens while L is gone or asleep.    I don't think that part is nec a single parent or married parent issue.  That is a *parenting* issue.

However, I think it does become a single parent issue when the child does walk in on a parent having sexual relationship with someone who is not their father.  I think it is extremely inappropriate, and I too can't believe that you didn't stop after the first time. I wouldn't want L to have to ask those questions, nor would I want to have any explaining to do to his father about L seeing the BF and I getting our freak on.  

 I can honestly say, of the times we have had sex and been interrupted (usually be a "Mooooom" or a knock at the door, we stop.   We both stop 'napping' and go play.    Of course the BF has to wait a few minutes for everything to settle down.   We no longer do have sex while L is awake for numerous reasons-- primarily because I don't want L looking back thinking "Geez, mom, while I was playing thomas the train all by myself, you and friend were having sex!  That entire time you told me you were napping!" 

yes, I do agree that it might be inevitable to be caught, but I don't think that it needs to continue.