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Bad Day

jennykg1477jennykg1477
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This morning I tested and got a BFN.  That means that we have officially been trying for one year.  I don't know why, but the one year mark just made me feel bad about the whole situation.  Sad  I am hoping that year #2 of trying ends with a pregnancy instead of another sad milestone on the infertility journey.

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  • AmandaMacDAmandaMacD member
    Ugh.  I'm so sorry.  It totally sucks.  I hope your year ends on a high note too!
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  • tosh24tosh24 member
    I'm sorry about the BFN. I hope this year brings you what you've been waiting for!
    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
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  • beacbabebeacbabe
    im sorry :(
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  • choirgirlchoirgirl

    I'm so sorry.  Milestones like that totally suck.  I wish it were easier not to get caught up in them, but I know I do.

    Wishing you luck for next cycle!

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  • cvillecouplecvillecouple member
    :(  I'm so sorry.  So hope that 2011 brings a BFP!  ((hugs)) 
    TTC #1 May 2007
    M/C January 2008
    DS February 16th, 2009

    TTC #2 July 2010
    Diagnosed MFI
    IUI#1 w/ bravelle 5/12/11 -- 0% morph on day of IUI, but somehow BFP:
    Beta #1 38 at 12dpiui, Beta #2 85 at 14dpiui Beta #3 1100 at 19dpiui
    DD born December 28, 2011 at 34w6d

    Baby #3 due June 14, 2015

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  • kellyjg123kellyjg123
    So sorry, I too hope that before year two is up you have a healthy happy baby to hold in your arms :o)
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  • RyansMTCowGirlRyansMTCowGirl
    SIF milestones are so hard.  I am sorry about your BFN.
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  • jennykg1477jennykg1477
    Thanks Everyone for all of the support!  I love that all of you completely understand how I feel.  I actually posted what I thought was a vague Facebook status about this, but apparently not vague enough because people still seemed to know what I was talking about.  It turned out that several of my FB friends are going through or have gone through the same thing and they gave me a lot of encouragement.  I was kind of surprised that it ended it a good result since I was totally thinking that I shouldn't post it. 
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