I just spoke with my former foster son's bio mom tonight. She and her BF do bible study. The guy leading the session shared a story of a woman who couldn't have children and then was blessed with twins. He then mentioned some more details about this infertile blessed woman and bio mom figured out he was talking about me!
His wife was a resident with my DH. Neither he nor his wife know anything about us! I met them twice and my DH didn't share any ttc details with the wife. When talking to bio mom, the guy made it sound like we were close friends. She showed him the Christmas card with a pic of the babies and he said something like, "Oh...I wonder why we didn't get one." He even asked her for my phone number so we can get "reconnected." Ummm....they lived 5 miles from us for 2 years and never spoke to us outside of work-related functions. I'm so angry someone who doesn't know my story is using me as an anecdote. Yes, my babies are a blessing, but no, they were not a surprise miracle. I went through hell - miscarriages, surgeries, pills, shots, and tears to have them. He has no friggin clue. I cringe when I think he may be sharing my story with a women struggling to get pg. So p!ssed!