Pregnant after a Loss

Some people have no brain!

I actually had someone at work today have the balls to ask me "So are you still pregnant?" I mean really? Not like Im a nervous wreck as it is. I didn't know how to respond. Some people are a$$holes huh?!
"You and me together can do anything, baby!!" DMB
Married October 16th, 2010
TTC #1 since October 2010
1st BFP 1-12-11
MC'd 1-22-11
2nd BFP 2-15-11
Our Wee One....**KENNEDY JO** born 10/3/11@ 36weeks via Csection
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Re: Some people have no brain!

  • Who posted bail after you beat them to a pulp?
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    Who posted bail after you beat them to a pulp?
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    Who posted bail after you beat them to a pulp?

    Word.

    How did you reply?!?! I think I would have been rendered speechless (but could come up with half a dozen snarky retorts about 30 mins after the fact).


    BFP #1 via IUI ~ L (Fatal Birth Defect) 4/7/10
    BFP #2 via IUI ~ m/c
    BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
    BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
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  • Uh, yeah.  That douche deserves one of these

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  • That is just awful.
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  • I had no idea how to respond, I was shocked someone would ask me that. Its almost like a slap in my face. I had some people actually ask me why I got pregnant right away after my mc. My own boss actually was confused and said "so did you even mc? Because she didnt get how I got preg the next month. Um duh, its called ovulation!!
    "You and me together can do anything, baby!!" DMB
    Married October 16th, 2010
    TTC #1 since October 2010
    1st BFP 1-12-11
    MC'd 1-22-11
    2nd BFP 2-15-11
    Our Wee One....**KENNEDY JO** born 10/3/11@ 36weeks via Csection
    My BFP Chart
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Labor Buddy to **MRS.ATCH** Welcome Quinn 11-5-11**
  • Some people are so clueless. I didn't tell anyone until I started to show and they started guessing. I didn't feel like dealing with stupid comments...which I still get regularly.
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  • They need a throat punch!
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    6/14/10 BFP; 6/30/10 Dx ectopic
    11/16/10 BFP #2; DD born 7/26/11
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  • Indifferent

    Completely shocked. Holy crap. I have no other words.

  • Yup, some people are really clueless. We won't be sharing our secret any time soon- for me un-telling twice has really wiped me out. But I get dumb questions all the time about whether we are trying. 
    After two losses, a rainbow arrived! DD born 11.5.11
    Dx with severe Asherman's syndrome after a botched PP D&C (pursuing med mal)
    Hysteroscopy Oct '13, not enough progress 
    Hysteroscopy Jan '14, given an end-of-the-road diagnosis
    Joined International Asherman's Association April '14 
    Not ready to give up yet.
    Hysteroscopy with Dr. Isaacson (an expert in the USA) 6.2.14: Good prognosis, at least 50% of cavity open.
    Repeat hysteroscopy scheduled with Dr. I on 6.16.14. Great progress. Unbenched!!!!
    Discussing actively TTC with DH after the heartache of the last year. We're both reeling.
     
    Please, please, please. 
  • WHAT!!! That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard! So Sorry you had to experience that!
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