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Some people are so INSENSITIVE!!!

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Re: Some people are so INSENSITIVE!!!

  • quezzoquezzo member
    It just took me to the TTCAL board, not a specific post...?
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  • kellbelle618kellbelle618 member
    She already DD'd. The post was basically about how she really wanted a girl and not a boy and when should they BD to make sure they get a girl this time.
    Married 9/19/09
    BFP#1 05/19/10 M/C 6/4/10 d/x threatened m/c 6/6/10 m/c confirmed
    BFP#2 10/26/10 M/C 11/01/10
    BFP#3 11/28/10 C/P 11/29/10
    BFP#4 02/23/11 M/C 3/1/11
    BFP#5 08/13/11 EDD 04/27/12 Beta @11DPO 8.79 Beta @13DPO 36 Beta @17DPO 179 Beta @20DPO 679!! 6w3d hb 116 bpm! 8w3d hb 164 bpm! 10w4d hb 177-187 NT scan 12w2d hb 173-everything looks great! 14w4d-everything still looks great! A/S scheduled for 12/12!
    Our rainbow baby is here!! Emmalynn Anne born 4/27/12 via unplanned c-section
    BFP#6 Surprise! Here comes baby #2! Harper Elizabeth born 12/17/13 via c-section
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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    I don't get gender disappointment. I really, really don't. I understand a slight preference for one over the other, but if that lasts more than a second when you find out what you are having, I judge harshly.

    Also, it's a 50-50 shot boy or girl. If you don't know that going into TTC, you're a moron.

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  • kellbelle618kellbelle618 member
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    I don't get gender disappointment. I really, really don't. I understand a slight preference for one over the other, but if that lasts more than a second when you find out what you are having, I judge harshly.

    Also, it's a 50-50 shot boy or girl. If you don't know that going into TTC, you're a moron.

    Exactly! But she was going on and on about how she knows boy sperm are faster then girl sperm and if they BD'd the other day should that wait until tomorrow to give the girl sperm a chance to get to the egg or something. I dunno. The girl was dumb.

    Married 9/19/09
    BFP#1 05/19/10 M/C 6/4/10 d/x threatened m/c 6/6/10 m/c confirmed
    BFP#2 10/26/10 M/C 11/01/10
    BFP#3 11/28/10 C/P 11/29/10
    BFP#4 02/23/11 M/C 3/1/11
    BFP#5 08/13/11 EDD 04/27/12 Beta @11DPO 8.79 Beta @13DPO 36 Beta @17DPO 179 Beta @20DPO 679!! 6w3d hb 116 bpm! 8w3d hb 164 bpm! 10w4d hb 177-187 NT scan 12w2d hb 173-everything looks great! 14w4d-everything still looks great! A/S scheduled for 12/12!
    Our rainbow baby is here!! Emmalynn Anne born 4/27/12 via unplanned c-section
    BFP#6 Surprise! Here comes baby #2! Harper Elizabeth born 12/17/13 via c-section
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  • damabo80damabo80 member
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    BFP #1 via IUI ~ L (Fatal Birth Defect) 4/7/10
    BFP #2 via IUI ~ m/c
    BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
    BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
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  • PachitaPachita member
    imageScout05:

    I don't get gender disappointment. I really, really don't. I understand a slight preference for one over the other, but if that lasts more than a second when you find out what you are having, I judge harshly.

    Also, it's a 50-50 shot boy or girl. If you don't know that going into TTC, you're a moron.

    Yes Well said.

    I personally would like a boy, but if God gives me a girl, I would be just as ecstatic.  DH and I are not BDing thinking of a boy or a girl.  We just want a healthy take home baby and that's that.

     

    BFP#1: 7/14/10.  EDD: 3/19/11--MMC-- D&C 9/2/10.
    BFP#2: 12:22/10.EDD: 8/30/11 C/P 12/25/10
    BFP#3: 10/26/11 EDD: 7/2/12-- Daniel born 7/14/12. My rainbow baby!                                                                                                                                           BFP #4:  2.22/15 EDD: 11/4/15 C/P 2/28/15                                                                                                                                                                                      BFP #5:  4/5/15   EDD 12/11/15 (Ectopic Pregnancy)

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  • MrsAtchMrsAtch member
    I'd be happy with either sex. At this point I just want a baby so badly I'll take whatever I can get! 
    After two losses, a rainbow arrived! DD born 11.5.11
    Dx with severe Asherman's syndrome after a botched PP D&C (pursuing med mal)
    Hysteroscopy Oct '13, not enough progress 
    Hysteroscopy Jan '14, given an end-of-the-road diagnosis
    Joined International Asherman's Association April '14 
    Not ready to give up yet.
    Hysteroscopy with Dr. Isaacson (an expert in the USA) 6.2.14: Good prognosis, at least 50% of cavity open.
    Repeat hysteroscopy scheduled with Dr. I on 6.16.14. Great progress. Unbenched!!!!
    Discussing actively TTC with DH after the heartache of the last year. We're both reeling.
     
    Please, please, please. 
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  • ksulliksulli member

    We just had a post on my BMB about a girl that was disappointed and upset when she found out baby's sex becuase she'd really wanted the other... I couldn't respond. 

    If I have any preference at all, it's only becuase I've already settled on a boy name.  But seriously, not a reason to 'want' a boy more than a girl.  Just a live baby, please.

    *Married 10.10.08*
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    TTC #1 9.09 - BFP#1:2.18.10= missed m/c, D&C 4.16
    BFP#2:10.22.10=Avelin born 7.2.11
    TTC#2: 2.13 - BFP#3: 7.25.13=Kelsey born 3.31.14
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