what i am finding to be the most difficult

Lucky_Dragonfly

it seems that anytime I try to spend some time with DS, DD ends up waking up and needs to be fed or wants to be held or just needs something. I feel really bad because I just want a little one on one time with him.

utlawgirl

I just have one, so I can't say I've been there, but it's one of the things I've always thought must be SO hard about having a second child. 

ReeseM

I know exactly what you need. Sometimes DD takes it really well, others, not so much. I just keep reminding myself that it won't be long before DD2 is ready for a nap again. Also it won't be long til DD2 won't be so needy.

Good luck. We are all right there with you!

As DD2 wakes up....

TBLilyRose

That's my biggest worry about having another. I told DH I don't want #2 unless we are living closer to family so I can have some help and that DS will get sufficient attention.

JLSmith124

I am right there with you! Every time I try to spend some one on one time with DS1, DS2 wakes up and needs something, or starts fussing...he's even given me the puppy dog eyes a few times like "mom, why can't you play with me?" It broke my heart!