Hello! I am kind of afraid to post here because I am not sure this is the appropriate place for me - so if it's not I am sincerely sorry. I am TTC#2. I had a m/c in October 2008 prior to having DD in October of 2009. We decided to try for #2 when DD was 9 months old but my body didn't cooperate for awhile because I was still BFing. Once I stopped it took 6 weeks for AF to return. We caught the ovulation before that first AF. We have only been trying for 5 cycles but have had perfect timing for all of those cycles. I wouldn't worry except for weird things my body is doing. Like I spot on and off through my entire LP. My LP is only at most 12 days which I know isn't terrible but sometimes I start bleeding at 9DPO. My cycles are moderately long (30-35 days) and never the same from one cycle to another. My gut tells me something is not right... I truely feel it's not just frustration and paranoia... I really think there is something not right.
I go to my OB this coming Thursday for a fertility consult. I'm going to tell him in detail what is going on. But I was wondering if you ladies had any suggestions on questions to be prepared for - or any things I should push for. My fear is he won't do anything for me until I have been trying for a year for #2. I'm not sure I can mentally take that
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You are definitely in the right place. If you feel in your gut that there is something wrong, then go with your gut. I would bring any charting info to the OBGYN and tell them about your LP spotting. He/she will probably send you for some tests and hopefully get to the bottom of things. Lots of luck and welcome!
"Just keep swimming, just keep swimming..."
I just looked at fertility friend and didn't realize I could actually print my charts This should be helpful. Thanks!
This, and also good luck from me
How old are you? If you are over 35, then the 1 year rule doesn't apply, 6 months does. And my RE doesn't even seem to care about that when you are older, but maybe I'm different bc I'm 41.
Anyway, welcome, but hopefully you won't have to get too comfy here and can move on to a pg board!
You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. -Eleanor Roosevelt
After 1 year of TTC#2 BFP May 2011 m/c #3 4w2d. Off to RE.
Round 1: Femara + Ovidrel +TI = BFP! EDD 2/20/12
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