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Re: FFFC - Let's Hear Them!

  • lulupinkertonlulupinkerton member
    I am sick to death of BFing.
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  • ablouablou member
    imagelulupinkerton:
    I am sick to death of BFing.
    Then stop! Puddin's a year!!!
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  • bella&babybella&baby member

    I think it's great that you enjoy your arrangement. I agree that it doesn't make you any less committed to your relationship...in fact, I think it shows great commitment to define your relationship as you and your partner see fit, so that you don't create problems for yourself later.

    My FFC: I'm actually considering having a polygamous relationship. The only thing stopping me is the thought of explaining it to people (DS especially). 

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  • itkatydiditkatydid
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    I think i love my daughter more than I love my husband. 

    i think this is normal.  you share your heart with your husband but your child IS your heart.

    I love that JG!  Right now I could auction H off to the highest bidder...but not my baby!  Oh, and I KNOW I love LO more than H! 

    I heart you both!!! 

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  • KMT to JWHKMT to JWH member

    imagebiochemgirl:
    I think i love my daughter more than I love my husband. 

    This is me! Oh and my daughter has that same outfit from your Siggy!



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  • blublusherblublusher member
    imageitkatydid:
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    imagejonnygurl76:

    imagebiochemgirl:
    I think i love my daughter more than I love my husband. 

    i think this is normal.  you share your heart with your husband but your child IS your heart.

    I love that JG!  Right now I could auction H off to the highest bidder...but not my baby!  Oh, and I KNOW I love LO more than H! 

    I heart you both!!! 

    Cani join this love fest b/c i love all 4 of you!

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  • blublusherblublusher member

    imageMamma2twins06:
    Mine's a doozy.  I totally endorse the "hall pass" idea.  My marriage is strong, healthy and DH and I love each other immensely.  But we aren't always compatible sexually, and love each other enough to realize that.  So we have an open marriage. We run prospective partners by each other, and if either is uncomfortable, we don't go ahead.  But we have the option if we want it.

    so let me ask you this...what happens if you get pregnant or if he gets someone else pregnant? birth control is not 100%.

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  • grapeape73grapeape73 member

    imagelulupinkerton:
    I am sick to death of BFing.

    hallelujah!  I am so done.  I have either been pg, BFing, or TTc since 2005.  I'm exhausted!!! She is showing no signs of weaning though.  The other 2 were two were weaned by 13 months, and I want to be done.

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  • shopgirl78shopgirl78 member

    OP- my parents are swingers.  I can't imagine the lifestyle but respect it.  It works for them too.

    My FFFC, I often stick my 13 mo old outside with my big kids to play while I am inside.  If I am inside, he is playing outside in the exersaucer.  Otherwise, if I let them outside and he is not out there, he is screaming the entire time.  


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  • MegGaryMegGary member
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    Why be married then? Why not just have an open relationship? Marriage is about two people committing themselves to eachother. If you don't want to do that why get married? Not flaming or judging just asking.

    ffs, who says they're not committed to each other?

    Her FFC said it.  How can you be commited to someone if you are having sex with someone else?  I don't see how that is possible. 

    No, it didn't.  This is entirely your interpretation.   Can you see how you and the OP are different people entirely?

    Yes, we are different people entirely.  So what do you think commitment is then?  When I got married I commited to give myself only to my husband and that is what I do. So, to me, her having sex with other men means she is not commited to her husband

    Well, I suppose if you think sex is the sum total of the commitment between two people, this makes sense.  Other people see it differently.  Jesus.

    I imagine she doesn't believe that. It is only part of the full commitment. For most people you can see why their commitment to each other is questioned. Not to mention for a lot of women sex is not just a physical act like it can be for men. We often need an emotional connection when it comes to sex. Not saying all just some.

    I also don't see why you are getting so defensive over this. It's not like anyone is flaming OP. People are just asking questions out of curiosity.  

     

    eta: sorry for all the grammatical errors. It's Friday. I'm spent. :) 

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