at least my RE called himself to tell me, not that I didn't already know. Our wtf is in 2 wks on the 21st. My main ? is why do all of our embies die. We've had 20 embies in 2 ivfs not make it to day 5 freeze and our fert rate is just above half.
I had a huge cry last night but work (mortgage finance, yay) and the rest of life (buying a house fell through, cousin with cancer) are keeping me busy so i haven't focused on it too much. Does anyone know the Milk & Cheese comic? I am a carton of hate. I am a wedge of spite. Yep.
Re: ivf #2 officially bfn
After 2 rounds of IVF & 2 rounds of FET, we were blessed with identical twin girls!
Jo, I am so sorry. I don't even know what else to say. (((HUGS)))
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I'm so sorry. Hopefully your RE will have some answers to your questions.
Hang in there.
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Severe MFI - on to IVF w/ ICSI
IVF#1-2: BFN
IVF#3: BFP! - 1/24: ET - 5d - 2 blasts - 2/02: Beta #1: 16.2 ...... 2/04: Beta #2: 35 ...... 2/09: Beta #3: 401.5 - I'm pregnant! - 2/13: u/s #1 - baby boy, due 10/12, born 10/16! ...... 8 lbs 0 oz, 22 inches!
I'm so very sorry : (
As much as I hate crying (this last time was almost 3 days straight), it helps in a small, small way.
Daycare is SO exhausting!
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After a loss at 13wks and years dealing with IF and failed treatments (3 failed IUI and 1 failed IVF), we have been blessed with DS (surprise BFP) and now his little sister (2nd round of clomid and TI) on her way.
I'm very sorry.... maybe your embryos aren't making it to day 5 due to lab conditions. That's what was happening to me and I went to a new RE, very little change in protocol resulted in 75% of my fertilized embryos going to blast. good luck at your follow up
I am so sorry about everything -- especially your BFN
I hope that your RE has some helpful answers for you at your next appointment.
I am so very sorry (((HUGS)))
i am so sorry - I know there are no words to make you feel better.
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I'm so sorry.
((HUG))
Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)
It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II