Just had my head chewed off on TTCAL (I deleted the post). I used to be an avid bumpy when pg with DD but so much has changed since then! Here was my post, hope it's accepted on this board!
I'm an off and on again Bumpie, I took a break after my M/C, the emotional rollercoaster was too much.
But just wanted to share that I did get a very faint BFP this morning ![]()
DH and I are going to celebrate Valentine's Day on Sunday so I think I'm going to wait to tell him Sunday morning (he already left for work when I tested this morning) when the BFP will show up better. It may be selfish, but there's something nice about being the only one who knows for 2 days.
Re: Moving over here!
Congrats on your BFP.
Please keep in mind, though, that the many (if not most) of the ladies on this board were active posters of the TTCAL board, so complaining about that board won't get very far here. Your post was inappropriate for the TTCAL board, and the girls let you know. An apology might go a long way.....
Have fun on Valentine's Day telling your DH.
Congrats!
I can't for the life of figure out why you'd have your head bitten off on a Trying To Conceive After a Loss board for posting a BFP?! Hmm strange?!
H&H 9 months!
The TTCAL ladies are upset about your post because we don't KNOW you! Why are we going to be happy for someone that hasn't provided us any support? It's a two-way street! Give me support and I'll be more than happy to respond to your posts, stalk your chart and congratulate you when you post your BFP on PgAL.
If you knew anything about us...you would be very aware of the fact that we have multiple ladies in the process of losing their pregnancies right now. What makes you think they want to see a BFP being rubbed in their face when they are starting the grieving process for their lost LO?!
An apology would have been nice.
Dx with Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome (APS)
BFP #4 5/14/12
5/17/12...1st Betas- 176, P4 3.6
5/22/12...2nd Betas- 207, P4 6.1 (MC confirmed)
::peeking in:: This!! And a real apology!!!
Missed M/C discoverd at 10w5d measuring 6w6d on 12/3/10 said goodbye 12/12/10 EDD 6/26/11 "this too shall pass"
DS Born 9/29/2005 via c-section (breech)
BFP #3 3/7/11 - EDD 11/17/11
Betas: @14dpo-182 @18dpo-854!! @21dpo-3124!!!
3-27-11 150 BPM!!!!
He's a BOY!!!! Kieran Thomas
BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
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08/18/2012 - BFP (Hoping this is our rainbow!)

06/24/2012 - Loss confirmed at 12 weeks
12/14/2010 - Loss baby girl at 20 weeks due to Turner Syndrome
01/2009 - Chemical Pregnancy
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You cannot post your BFP over there because you are not one of "them". To accomplish being "one of them" you must spend 4+ hours daily on their board. Commiserating together about POM juice and Facebook status's. Also, you must cheer people on as they announce their quadruple pack of pee sticks from Amazon just came in and they are on their way RIGHT NOW to pee on one to see if there is a line. And then, anylize the photo with them on how dark the 2nd line is. Also, it helps to throw in that you occasionally lurk on your old BMB just to cry about it. The more people who feel sorry for you, the better. Only then can you post your BFP and get away with it.
HTH. And, congrats.
Im sorry that you didnt have to do ANYTHING at all to get pregnant. And sorry that it does not make you sad to see everyone happy on the BMB that you were supposed to still be a part of but can't because your baby died! BUT WE ARE!!!!! Considering you have been through a loss you should undrstand this!!! She only posted 8 times on our board before flailing her BFP in our faces. There are many woman who are still surrently going through a loss, woman who are comming back from this board to ours and woman who got BFFN's today!!!! So yea we are all still a little raw over there and protect the ones that support us!!
Missed M/C discoverd at 10w5d measuring 6w6d on 12/3/10 said goodbye 12/12/10 EDD 6/26/11 "this too shall pass"
DS Born 9/29/2005 via c-section (breech)
BFP #3 3/7/11 - EDD 11/17/11
Betas: @14dpo-182 @18dpo-854!! @21dpo-3124!!!
3-27-11 150 BPM!!!!
He's a BOY!!!! Kieran Thomas
Who the heck said I didn't have a problem getting pregnant? I just didn't feel the need to share my drama with a bunch of strangers for hours a day. Interacting IRL face to face, with people and taking care of your families is more helpful than commiserating.
BTW, you ladies were (and still are) all over her post here like horse flies on sh*t because most of you love the drama it causes. And the excuse to blame your BFN on a total stranger is even better. Just like half of you who responded on THIS board aren't even pregnant. If it is so "painful" then why follow it here?
It's 100% true sweetcheeks. Find something other than spelling errors to focus on.
BTW, are you currently pregnant?
The title of the board is "pregnant after a loss". If pregnant women cannot post on TTCAL, then it should work both ways. Since you are not pregnant and have nothing currently to contribute to a pregnant woman's issues, then please go back to your designated board.
Since seeing a BFP over on the TTCAL board is so upsetting, have the same consideration for us. Maybe seeing a non-pregnant women who suffered a loss with multiple loss tickers and stillborn infant photos in their siggys are not welcome here. You are "reminding" us of our losses. It is hard to feel hopeful when I have to wade through post's of women who are currently struggling with infertility.
How's that for a taste of your own medicine?
Are YOU pregnant?
It's either black or white, ladies. make up your minds.
You are good for nothing but causing trouble. If you spent one second on TTCAL in recent weeks you'd see that none of the recent grads have posted their BFPs over there. I think you live to stir the pot and then when people call you out you get your rocks off on talking down to them and insulting them. YOU ARE TOXIC!!! Go away!
This from someone who blamed their miscarriage on me? This is a public forum. Since I am pregnant after a loss, I will post here if I want. Do you really think I care what any of you think? It's hillarious to call you all out on your ridiculous rules. Block me,sweet pea. I would hate to be repsonsible for another loss of yours.
Hi ladies, Just a FYI that I did post an apology on the TTCAL board. I can only post durning my breaks and lunch at work otherwise I would have soon.
Not sure who this Corts person is but PP is correct, they're just trying to stir the pot. Just ignore and they'll go away.
I take it back you're not toxic...you're down right evil! You and I both know sweetheart that I never blamed anything on you. So go ahead and keep playing that card but it doesn't fly with me. BTW I'd never block you, your particular brand of bsc is really entertaining! Best wishes for a healthy remainder to your pregnancy though!
Harsh and uncalled for. And frankly, quite disgusting.
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Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
BFP #4 5/8/11
BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
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Wow really Corts.. Your such a fcking biitch. If you are offended at seeing ultrasounds of babies loss then you have some serious issues. If you really had a loss you wouldn't be such a heartless biitch. Go fck yourself and go on somewhere.
Hey Corts? Fvck you.
That is all.
BFP#1 5.27.10 DS became an angel at 21 weeks on 9.22.10
BFP#2 4.16.11 Healthy baby girl born 12.14.11
BFP#3 9.3.12 A healthy, bouncing baby SISTER on the way! EDD 5.12.13
Corts - you are a heartless b!tch.
Corts you are a complete total idiot!!! Seriously who do you think you are coming here and bashing other people like that. Don't you DARE talk about someone elses losses like it doesn't matter to them. Just becuase it doesn't matter to you that you suffered a loss, others take their losses seriously and take offence when a complete stranger walks in and says "HEY GUESS WHAT IM KTFU" The girls of TTCAL can post here whenever the he!! they damn well please. Who are you to say that they can't? They have questions they want to ask PGAL and as far as I know we dont mind. They want to come on here to congratulate the graduates that come over here. Girls who have spent months even years on TTCAL dont even announce their pregnancy over there - TTCAL is their home board where they go to get support they dont go there to see some stranger announce they are KU.
Since when did you make up the rules for both boards anyways?
Sleezy troll biitches shouldn't be able to post here either.
Shanna... I
 you.. 
As for pregnant women not being allowed to post on TTCAL and non pregnant women not being allowed to post on PgAL, that's just absurd. I don't know where you got that idea. I post on both boards. I posted on both boards after going through my 2nd loss. Sure, it stung to come here and read about people having babies in October. But, they're also my friends and I was over the moon for them and absolutely love hearing about their LOs. And, just because I got pregnant, doesn't mean I can't support my friends who are still trying.
You're sick.
m/c 12/25/09 (5w5d) mm/c D&C 4/9/10 (11w1d) Take home baby 2/22/11
My boobies belong to cour10e
OMG ladies, don't feed it. "Obvious" doesn't even begin to cover it.
OP - Please understand many of us are TTCAL graduates and very protective of that board. We are rooting for those ladies, and don't want them to be hurt, even by an honest mistake.
I'm glad you found the right board, and I hope you have an uneventful pregnancy. This board will be great for you as you move forward in the PGAL process.
This, congrats and welcome. These post mistakes have happened in the past and I think this was handled a lot better than most. Happy and healthy 9 months to you!
Troll MUD or not, someone's gotta be a sick little monkey to think up crap like that.
I hate to be a total cliche, but I not only feel sorry for her husband and unborn child, but every person who has to deal with someone with such a cold black heart.
Enjoy being on