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My SIL is pregnant

jlcrane78jlcrane78 member
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My 25 year old, unmarried, can't keep a steady boyfriend, can't keep a steady job SIL is pregnant.  I spent 2 hours sitting in a random parking lot because DH can't understand why I am pissed.  My BFF and my brother had to talk me down.  This is the worst timing ever for this, and to top it all off we found out on Facebook.  She didn't even have the decency to call us with the news.  Cue every bitter, jealous emotion inside me.  I can't hide any of it tonight.
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  • chizzle09chizzle09
    I'm sorry. I also found out my SIL is pregnant this past weekend. IF sucks. I hate her for being pregnant and not me.
    TTC #1 since 7/09
    Dx: LPD, underdeveloped follicles, blocked left tube
    3 C/P, 1 BO, 1 Ectopic
    IVF#1=BFN (3/11)
    FET#1=BFP
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  • scooterqscooterq member

    I am so so sorry!!  I would be so angry, upset, bitter too. FUIF!!!

    Big ((hugs))

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  • firewife9278firewife9278 member

    (((HUGS))) I'm sorry!

     
    A+S | Met 8/24/06 | Married 9/27/08
    Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
    6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
    Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP

    2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa!
    Lots of Luck to all of 3T/IF

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  • MelicakesMelicakes member

    I'm so sorry you had to hear this and so sorry your DH wasn't quick to empathize with you...

    Feel better Hun, Have a drink or two if you can because she sure can't

    Damn IF is such a b!tch ...

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  • Faith722Faith722 member
    I'm so sorry.  It's never fair.
    IVF #3 = Feb 2012
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    EDD 11/25/12
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  • Nesting.AwayNesting.Away
    ((hugs))
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  • ked1068ked1068
    Oh sweetie...I've been there.  I'm so so sorry.  Big *hug* being sent your way!
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    3 IUI's, 2 IVF's , 1 FET , 1 IVF w/ Gestational Carrier, and 1 FET using adopted embryo's = ALL BFNs
    We are adopting!

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  • Sunshine05Sunshine05 member
    I'm so sorry.  I just found out SIL is pg on Sunday... must be the season for pg SILs.  It sucks bigtime, this is her 6th time lapping us.  I got the most support from all the girls here when I posted my vent and it helped so much.  DH still hasn't said anything to me about it.  He held my hand on the couch while I cried.  I know it hurts him to, but I don't think our DH's really get how it impacts us.  FWIW, I get it and it hurts.  *big hugs*
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  • 07may0707may07
    ((hugs))  I'm so sorry. 
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  • MAbride0808MAbride0808 member
    (((hugs)))
    TTC since Jan. 2010 DX Unexplained infertility
    3 IUI's w/Clomid & Ovidrel=all BFNs
    3 IVF (2 Fresh, 1 frozen) =BFN
    Jan 2012 New RE & Fresh Cycle =BFP!
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    TTC #2 October 2014
    Meet with RE March 2015
    2 Frozen & 1 Fresh IVF= BFNs
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  • katerenakaterena
    I'm sorry sweetie, hugs
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  • cookie_queencookie_queen

    I'm sorry.

    DH's don't get crap like this. My DH can't understand why I have a hard time being around pg friends and newborns right now. Idiots. 

    TTC with severe MFI since 9/08 IVF w/ ICSI #1 May/June 2010= BFP twins
    Callan George and Bennett Charles born and died 11/7/10
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    FET #1 April 2011= BFN
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  • Mandy_Lou83Mandy_Lou83 member
    So sorry.
    After 3 years of infertility we were blessed with twin girls through private infant adoption.
    Forever our's October 17th 2012
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  • alclements85alclements85 member
    I'm so sorry - I would definately feel bitter as well. My SIL is a couple years younger than me and they've been married 1.5 years, so I'm just waiting for the same announcement from them. Ugh...stupid IF!
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  • airforcetechairforcetech
    I'm sorry. ((HUG))
    Expecting #1 pregnancy week by week
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  • psychmusetlspsychmusetls member
    ::hugs:: it sucks :( I'm sorry
    S/PAIFW
    Tara & Dave - TTC since September 2006
    PCOS - dx 1999 (amenorrhea) | freakishly long fallopian tubes
    Hypoglycemic | thyroid issues | severely anemic
    Multiple Clomid cycles of 50, 100, 150 - absolutely no response
    Follistim 50/100 | Follistim 75/125 | Follistim 100/150 IUI - all BFNs
    Converted IVF - BFP - m/c | FET - BFN | IVF #2 = BFN
    IVF #3
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  • lilredjlilredj member
    I'm sorry!!  IF sux!!
    Jennifer TTC #1 Dx PCOS 2009 Apr, Aug, and Sept tried clomid cycles.... BFN. Oct...DH SA results were normal. Me...HSG - left tube was clear, right tube was slightly blocked. Dec - Clomid #4 200mg Feb 2010 - IUI #1 200mg Clomid = BFN. June 2010 - IUI #2 200mg Clomid = BFN. March 2011 - IUI #3 w/ injectables = BFN (1st & last with RE, moving on to IVF). July 2011 - consult for IVF. Sept 2011, 1st IVF. Got our BFP on 10/2/11. Became a mom on 5/5/12 to a beautiful baby boy! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker AlternaTickers - Cool, free Web tickers
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  • Edwina.McDunnoughEdwina.McDunnough
    I'm sorry.
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  • naybirdnaybird

    Seriously!! You have every right to feel this way.. even if you weren't dealing with IF, it would still be hard to be happy for her...  So let it all out.. cry, scream, whatever you need to do to feel better, do it...

    Sending you big hugs,

    Renee*

    Renee- 37 DH - Chad - 39
    2/06 - surprise pregnancy - twins
    3/06 - m/c 1st baby at 6 weeks 
    5/06 -2nd baby had no heartbeat at 14 wks.
    D&E - Bled out. Blood transfusions. Week in ICU - Cheated Death!
    Diagnosis: Blood clotting and bleeding disorder, immune issues, & cervical stenosis
    5/10 - 1st IVF cycle - BFN
    FET - 10/12/10 - BFN
    1/11 - IVF with PGD - BFN
    IVF - May - BFN
    6/11 New RE - fingers crossed!
    9/11 - IVF - 4 transferred
    10/13 - BFP!!
    It's a boy! Clint Michael, Due in June!!!

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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    I'm so sorry, sending big hugs. Sorry your dh doesn't get why you are upset.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • DeputiesWifeDeputiesWife

    ::hugs::

    I am so sorry.

    TTC #2 since June '08

    ~*DD 10.21.07*~

    dx unexplained

    IUI #1-4 BFN

    IVF#1 June 2011 BFN

    IVF#2 Dec 2011

    Beta#1 12/21 : 812 Beta#2 12/23 : 1634

    EDD 8/25

    *PAIFW/SAIFW*

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  • MBfromBMCMBfromBMC

    IF is a b*tch... 

    I am so sorry, hon!  IF hurts so bad and so few people can truly understand.

    (((HUGS)))

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    TTC since March 2009 // Me and DH - 28
    Testing Summer/Fall 2010 - Unexplained IF
    IUIs #1-4 ~ Clomid/Ovidrel/TI/IUI ~ all BFNs
    IUI #5 ~ Femara/Ovidrel/TI/IUI ~ BFN
    IUIs #6-9 ~ Research Study Meds/Pregnyl/TI/IUI ~ all BFNs
    IVF Consultation, More Testing
    Diagnostic Cycle ~ Mucinex/Progesterone/TI ~ BFN
    IVF #1 ~ Menopur/Bravelle/Ganirelix/Novarel/Progesterone/Lupron
    7R, 6F // 2 transferred // 3 frosties ~ BFN
    FET #1 ~ Estrace/PIO/Lupron
    3 thawed // 2 transferred // 1 lost // no more frosties ~ BFP!!
    Beta #1 - 456 // Beta #2 - 1176 // Beta #3 - 2933 // Beta #4 - 6753
    EDD: May 16, 2013
    Threatened MC at 6w2d
    Bedrest for SCH // 6w2d through 10w1d
    Elevated TSH and Lazy Thyroid DX @ 10w - Started Synthroid
    Finally released from RE at 13w
    Charles Everett ~ Born 5/20/2013

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