And the hits keep on coming...

vanessagorc

So I went in for my co cultures biopsy, and they have put or cycle on hold   They can freeze my co cultures indefinately.

We are totally at the mercy of what the uro suggests.  He was travelling, and is back this afternoon.  Clearly, w a count of zero...we would need a TESE.

Well, the March TESE cylce has been booked for months.  We would have to hope someone cancels.  The next cycle is in JUNE

I know i am by no means the oldest person TTC-ing,  but June means i wouldn't even have a CHANCE at a take home baby till I am 36. 

This is just not where I thought I would be in my life

When is the earliest acceptable time for me to have a drink?  I am at least on the East coast.

DeputiesWife

its 1130 est here. i say go for it.

I am so sorry.

I hope someone cancels soon!!!

07may07

((hugs))  I am so sorry you are going through all this.  It's not fair.  I hope there are some March cancellations.

And, it's 5 o'clock somewhere.  I say you deserve to drink up.

Bella2u07

Oh hun, I am so very sorry that these road blocks keep coming up!  BIG (((HUGS)))

Keeping my fingers crossed that there is a March cancellation!!!!

As far as a time to drink, drink now....it's "5 o'clock somewhere".    Have one on me!

cookie_queen

Oh sweets, that sucks. I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this. It shouldn't be this hard. I hope the uro has some hope to offer when he gets back.

Eriksgal

that is ridiculous!  I hope they can get you guys in sooner. 

abbe19

O my gosh, I am so, so sorry. This sucks. And I agree with DeputiesWife, 11:30 is more than acceptable at a time like this. (((hugs)))

SLPMel

Would you think about using another Uro?  I can not recommend ours highly enough, and you could have the TESE frozen and take it back to NYC.  Just a though-I know your guy is really good.......

Ginger71

This sucks. Can your RE do anything to get Dr. s to move your DH up?

 I know you want to be pg ASAP, but don't worry about a few months...that shouldn't hurt your fertility.

I am going to keep my fingers crossed that there is a cancellation and you can get going.

You certainly have had your share of sh!t to deal with this week, V. I'm so sorry. (hugs)

 

stillwaiting12

I'm so sorry! Life definately tends to suck and a drink always makes it a tiny bit better, so I say go take your lunch at the closest Mexican Restauraunt and drink a grande margarita!

vanessagorc

SLPMel:

Would you think about using another Uro?  I can not recommend ours highly enough, and you could have the TESE frozen and take it back to NYC.  Just a though-I know your guy is really good.......

Thank you...we are kind of inclined to stay w Dr S at this stage, bc our case is getting weird.  He basically "pioneered" the mTESE, and DH is really comfortable with him.  And I'm pretty confident that if he can't help us, no one can...and we will have to move on past DH's sperm.

theworms

I'm so sorry.

I would see if your RE can talk to Dr. S. Maybe he can squeeze you in.  Dr. S is one of the best MFI Uro's and pioneered mTESE so you are in great hands.

IF is all about hurry up and wait, it is frustrating to no end!!

((HUGS))

and drink up

 

 

FYI - a little background about our relationship with Dr. S.  We met with him in April of 2008 and the soonest we could get on mTESE schedule was Sept 2008.  After he got biopsy slide we postponed mTESE b/c Dr. S rec. DH have Orchiopexy and Varicocele Surgery.  We then got on March 2009 mTESE list and of course mTESE was BF Fail. 

jessican08

I agree...people have mimosas for breakfast/brunch so you're A-OK for a drink in my book!

I'm so sorry you had to get this news Vanessa. I can't believe the uro is booked out that far...I hope someone cancels and you can get in sooner. ((HUGS)). It's not fair...

Melicakes

Awww man that is rough news to take

I'd definitely be having a margarita at lunch for sure !

HUGS!

SeptemberBride'08

I am so sorry to hear this. I hope you can get in sooner. I say have a drink with lunch!

nola8446

I am so sorry and hoping the uro has some good suggestions.  Keeping everything crossed that there is a cancellation in March.  (((HUGS)))

Oh, and IMO, it is acceptable to drink at anytime of day or night!! 

babystinkbreath

abbe19:

O my gosh, I am so, so sorry. This sucks. And I agree with DeputiesWife, 11:30 is more than acceptable at a time like this. (((hugs)))

ditto this.  drink up!  i am just so sorry you are facing further delays.  This is just not fair and I am so sad/upset for you that you have to wait again.  big hugs

Faith722

This is craziness!  I'm so upset that you're having to deal with this!

And, I agree, it's 5 o'clock somewhere.  <<HUGS>>

NicoleeBonsai

oh man, that stinks. i will keep everything crossed that someone cancels for next month.

and PLEASE, have a drink or five. it's basically noon EST, so i say go for it.

i'm so sorry sweetie ((HUGS))

Rachael07.07.07

(((hugs))) I hope that a slot becomes available for the March cycle for you guys! And yes, it's 5 o'clock somewhere!

LCS040209

ugh, I am so sorry. Can you seriously catch a break?! Huge ((hugs)).

I would say bloody marys and mimosas are acceptable as soon as you awake!  

Sunflower0908

What a terrible couple of days you've had, I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this.
Keeping my fingers crossed that someone cancels and you can get on the March schedule.

I'm British, it's 5.08pm over there, so pour yourself a large drink - Cheers!!

love2b_mrst

I think we should both drink though the whole rest of this week and forget all our other responsibilities.  I have a double bottle of Pinot Grigio waiting for me at home. 

I am so sorry that you are dealing with all this uncertainity.  I feel like IF is all about waiting, waiting, waiting.  I hope you are able to squeeze in on your uro's calendar.

beantownbride25

I'm so sorry. This is not fair. Drink up and (((HUGS)))!!

madelyn07

I'm so sorry sweetie.

It definitely isn't too early for a drink (or 5).

 

babylove0511

omg, i am so sorry sweetie! seriously, can you catch a break this week! i sure hope someone cancels so they can squeeze you in. there is nothing more they can do to get you on schedule sooner? i hate that you are postponed again and having to deal with this! ((HUGS))

orange1414

Ugh. I'm so sorry. You definitely deserve a drink!

SLPMel

vanessagorc:

SLPMel:

Would you think about using another Uro?  I can not recommend ours highly enough, and you could have the TESE frozen and take it back to NYC.  Just a though-I know your guy is really good.......

Thank you...we are kind of inclined to stay w Dr S at this stage, bc our case is getting weird.  He basically "pioneered" the mTESE, and DH is really comfortable with him.  And I'm pretty confident that if he can't help us, no one can...and we will have to move on past DH's sperm.

I completely understand.  I'm so sorry you are going through this.  It's so unfair...

cbubbles2

(hugs) I'm so sorry these things keep happening to you. You deserve some good news soon sweetie!

Jlynn3

I am so sorry.  I hope that some magic happens and you are able to get in for the March cycle!

And I agree - it is completely acceptable to start drinking now!

SweetDahlia

That really sucks. I'm so sorry you guys are going through this. What crap they will make you wait till June.

 I hope you are having a drink now.

katerena

Oh sweetie, so frustrating.  I am so sorry.  I say go ahead and drink up now.  Sending hugs and scotch. 

99luftballoons

So sorry Vanessa I think early afternoon is a perfectly acceptable time to start drinking...  I had an appointment this morning with Dr. K and I thought I saw your name on the IVF class list when I was waiting for them to figure out why my appt was not in the system. I was hoping that meant good news

June0609

I'm so sorry sweetie. I think you deserve a drink right now!

MBfromBMC

So sorry!  I hate roadblocks!  (((hugs)))

Mandy_Lou83

Ugh! So sorry you are going through this. You deserve a drink asap!

vanessagorc

99luftballoons:

So sorry Vanessa I think early afternoon is a perfectly acceptable time to start drinking...  I had an appointment this morning with Dr. K and I thought I saw your name on the IVF class list when I was waiting for them to figure out why my appt was not in the system. I was hoping that meant good news

 I hope ur appt went better than mine.  I was scheduled for the class bc our start date was in 2 wks.  I took it anyway (just the 1st part bc i know the inejects already).  And now we wait.

militarywife2b

(((hugs)))

Romeo&Denise

HUGE ***HUGS*** I am so sorry! I hope there are some cancellations soon.

I would crack open a bottle now!

erinandbrockv

It is not fair at all that you have to deal with all of this. I agree with PP's-it's 5 somewhere!

Amie8301

I am so sorry you're going through so much right now. It's just not fair. Please know I am thinking of you and sending tons and tons of hugs your way!!!