Does anyone have the magical answer because I am really in the dumps today. I want to feel like the old me again. :S I've been home alone all day, and it's not good for me to just sit around and think. And DH told me today that he thinks we should wait awhile to TTC again. He doesn't think I'm up for another pregnancy emotionally or physically. Which didn't make me feel any better. :S
Re: When will I feel good again?
5/9/2013 = Our rainbow was born!!
08/18/2012 - BFP (Hoping this is our rainbow!)
06/24/2012 - Loss confirmed at 12 weeks
12/14/2010 - Loss baby girl at 20 weeks due to Turner Syndrome
01/2009 - Chemical Pregnancy
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hugs to you.
not sure if there is really a length of time you feel upset for. it probably varies from person to person. I still feel like garbage......
DC#2 born silent at 22 weeks 1.11.11
Dc#3 born vbac 1/2012 <bra DC#4 born VBAC 3/2014
yelizah- I think that you are right that I will never be the old me again. I haven't been myself since my first m/c and this m/c has just torn me apart even more than the first. DH is probably right that I need time, but lately all I can think about is the baby I just lost. I don't know how to fill this void.
taurus- thanks for the hugs taurus....right back at you. I'm sorry you're still feeling like garbage. All I can say is I understand, I'm here, feeling the same way, and I know how much it stinks.
{Raising Jack}
You never really feel "good", you just kind of go back to normal with a faint faint tinge of sadness. I miscarried at 7 weeks and 4 days in September. I'm now 4 weeks and 4 days pregnant. I'm happy, but cautious. We haven't told anyone and I'm holding my breath till this baby makes it further than my last, even then there is no certainty. I put so much pressure on getting pregnant right away after my cycle resumed that I almost ruined my marriage, it has been better since my BFP but like I said I'm cautious and it has kind of darkened the whole experience. My heart goes out to you and I hope you feel better
Meg
I feel the same way. Had a m/c on Monday and feel empty. I try to do things with my friends and family, but feel like someone else, not me. I am so so scared to try again, how could I go through this again? How do people do this multiple times?
I am sorry I don't have an answer, just know that others feel the same way, you are not alone. I feel like a shell of my former self. Does it get better?
TTC since 3-2008: v/c repair 2009; BFP: 7-2010, m/c 8-2010, c/p 4-2011, BFP: 6-2011 EDD: 2-12-2012?
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