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I don't think my aunt is doing well

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my sister says she called my mom last night saying she was vomiting  a lot and in a lot of pain and the doctor wants to start her on morphine...she then asked my mom does this mean it is going to be over soon....my sister said it took everything for my mom to not cry on the phone with her...they said they delivered the hospice bed last night and the nurse is there today  I guess my mom is over there too....I don't even know what to expect when I get thereSad
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  • tmhdmhtmhdmh
    jen, i'm so sorry. my t&p are with you and your aunt.  ((big squishy hugs))
    Married 5/15/10. Me (29). DH (33). BFP#1 7/25/10 - Missed m/c 8wks - D&E 8/25/10 BFP#2 12/25/10 - Missed m/c 7wks - D&E 1/20/11 (second loss due to abnormal chromosome 7) Genetics testings- Normal. RPL panel results- Normal. Elevated FSH (14). DH b/w normal. SA- Normal. HSG- Left tube possibly blocked. Minor septum removed. My Ovulation Chart ~~ Hope is the companion of power, and mother of success. For who so strongly hopes has within him the gift of miracles ~~ image
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  • martinimommamartinimomma member

    I am so sorry, Jen.  Sending T&P for peace and physical and emotional comfort to your Aunt.  ((Hugs)).

     

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  • PachitaPachita member

    She'll be in my thoughts tonight. ((Big hugs Jen))

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    BFP#2: 12:22/10.EDD: 8/30/11 C/P 12/25/10
    BFP#3: 10/26/11 EDD: 7/2/12-- Daniel born 7/14/12. My rainbow baby!                                                                                                                                           BFP #4:  2.22/15 EDD: 11/4/15 C/P 2/28/15                                                                                                                                                                                      BFP #5:  4/5/15   EDD 12/11/15 (Ectopic Pregnancy)

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  • GaberinosGaberinos
    I'm so sorry :( You and your family are also in my thoughts and prayers. ((HUGS))
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  • itsmeginitsmegin
    I am so sorry. T&P for your family.
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  • npilcher506npilcher506
    So sorry! That is rough. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family!
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  • julesjbjulesjb member
    huge ((hugs))
    BFP #1 6/18/10 Saw HB 7/15/10 Missed M/C 8/17/10 @ 12 weeks 2 days- 2 D&C's( 8/20 and 8/26) BFP#2 11/21/10 Nonviable at 5wks, possible ectopic. Methotrexate 12/3/10&12/9/10 BFP#3 3/10/11 Beta@12dpo 39 Beta@14dpo 160! 21 DPO 2439 HB at 7wks 127 EDD 11/17/11
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  • Junebug060609Junebug060609 member

    I'm so sorry your family is facing this.  One of my cousins passed due to brain cancer (he was only 33) and his decline was so difficult to hear about. 

    Huge hugs to your entire family. 

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  • dondraandluisdondraandluis member

    I'm so sorry Jen. Keeping her and your family in T&Ps still (((HUGS)))

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  • jen629jen629 member
    thanks ladies
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  • jertiejertie member
    Oh Jen, I'm so sorry.  I can't even imagine what that is like.  I'm so sad for you and your family.  ((((HUGE SQUISHY HUGS))))

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  • Eris-AlexisEris-Alexis

    I am so sorry.  My T&Ps are with you, your family, and particularly your aunt.

    (((Big hugs)))

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  • mandy6418mandy6418
    Oh Jen, I'm so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. :::HUGS:::
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  • starrynytstarrynyt member
    I am so sorry.  (((hugs)))  This must be so difficult.


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  • Laurakat81Laurakat81 member
    I'm sorry Jen! You guys are in my prayers!

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    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

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  • rjl07rjl07
    I'm so sorry Jen.  I'm thinking of you and your family.  ((HUGS))
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  • tigers413tigers413
    Big squishy hugs!!! Sending T's&P's to you and your aunt.
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    I'm so sorry...tons of T&P to your aunt and your family.
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  • psumel13psumel13
    Oh Jen I am so sorry to hear this! I am praying for your aunt and the rest of your family. I cant even imagine what a challenging time this must be for you all! (((BIG HUGS)))
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  • EricaK28EricaK28 member
    Jen your family will be in my T & P. Huge Hugs
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  • KristipieKristipie member
    I'm so sorry.  Big huge hugs.  You and your family are in my T&P
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  • SheriBTSheriBT member
    Oh gosh, I am so sorry.  :(
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  • LilMaggsLilMaggs member
    *huge hugs*  I'm so sorry, thoughts and prayers like mad coming your way.
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  • mizdiz444mizdiz444
    ((((hugs)))) sending T&P's
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  • Fififa21Fififa21 member
    I?m so sorry, sending lots of prayers to you and your family.

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  • linz85linz85 member
    I'm so sorry Jen, My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
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  • butterfly843butterfly843

    Sending lots of hugs your way, you family is in my thoughts and prayers.

    Jenn

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