What if...

MsAmanda923

What if I had a miscarriage, and never had a D&C? I lost my baby at 5 1/2 weeks... and it was over two years ago...

I am starting to re-live all those moments again about losing my baby, and realized that I never had a d&c...

MegMeg0913

Not all miscarriages have to have a D&C.  I didn't have a D&C with my first loss and everything was fine.  

MsAmanda923

Good to know... Thank you...

Also... When will the feeling of the loss go away... Two years, and it still hurts everyday... I am sure it never will, but I hoping that it will ease soon... H and I just got married in December, but I am so scared that when we are ready to try again that I will be just as depressed as I was the first time around if something were to go wrong again.

**Trying to be strong while sitting at my desk at work, and to stop crying**

MegMeg0913

My first was 4 years ago and it still bothers me.  I think that you hold on to the hope that it won't always turn out this way.   That is really all we can do. 

livy91606

I didn't need a D&C.  Chances are, if you are having normal cycles and if your Dr didn't think you needed one, you are fine! 

I've been told that the pain never goes away, it just gets easier to deal with as time goes on.

I'm just trying to remain positive and hope that there will be another healthy baby coming into my life at some point (hopefully sooner than later

 Good luck.