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Update on DH's co worker and calling out

So I get another message on from B's wife and says B still very sick he will ON able to come in tomorrow

 

I messaged her back and said I can not be your middle man, you need to have your husband call my FIL or his direct supervisor directly. If you can call due to your lack any kind of phone, please email them directly as I already gave you this information.

 

She replies back Why can't you just do it!

 

WTF

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Re: Update on DH's co worker and calling out

  • Douche...
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  • imageqtpa2t:
    Douche...

     

    That pretty much sums it up!

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  • imagebrowneyedgrl4282:

    She replies back Why can't you just do it!

     

    Response option:

    "Ya know how stressed out you get caring for your kids?  Well.... I've got 3 of my own.  It's your responsibility to handle your personal and professional responsibilities, not mine.   My hands are full."

     

    Wow.

    I do NOT understand how people can be adults and not get the concept of taking responsibility for their own lives, families and business.

    They have obviously had some serious enabling in the past.

    I really really really hope you continue to get rent out of them.

     

    Our IF journey: 1 m/c, 1 IVF with only 3 eggs retrieved yielding Dylan and a lost twin, 1 shocker unmedicated BFP resulting in Jace, 3 more unmedicated pregnancies ending in more losses.
    Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
  • Honestly, this is rediculous!

    I'd reply that I can't do it because it is unprofessional of her husband and that you are not the middle man.  It makes her husband look horrible, IMO.

    Seriously, this reminds me of stories I've heard where parents of college students will call professors b/c they don't like the grades their kid gets or want to provide an excuse for why they didn't complete an assignment.  Totally inappropriate! (and really looks so bad for her husband.)  How sick can someone be that they can't even call/email out of work for pete's sake?

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  • You would think the phrase, "I cannot be your middle man" would tell her why you can't just do it.
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  • This woman is crazy.  Does she know how to be an adult?
    Ella- 8/22/08, Jules and Tuck- 12/15/10
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  • I would tell her you can't be her middle man because you aren't on the payroll!

    As H.S. mentioned, I hope they keep their heads far enough above water to stay current on their rent. Sounds like she may be the type to further abuse your relationship and expect you to let it slide when theyndon't pay their rent. Good luck!
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  • I guess there was some confusion, when I said they moved into our old house it was the house we rented. We were breaking the lease because we were expecting Brady and buying our own house. We also wanted out because it was duplex and they people on the other side got a dog that bite me! We were very honest with the people why were leaving but they didn't seem to care! Was odd to use that they wanted to move into a 2 bedroom house with 3 kids. I should also mention they no longer live there, they were kicked out because of drama!

     

    I point blank told her again that I could not help her and one of them needed contact my FIL or his direct department supervisor. I said again at the end of the message DH and I were not the ones they needed to contact for this kind of stuff!

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  • what the heck does ON stand for in her message?   I'm so confused does she speak English? 
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  • WTF is right. Honestly - they are adults...they may not act like it, but they are & it's not your problem if they don't know how to handle their business. I'd just wash my hands of it.
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    what the heck does ON stand for in her message?   I'm so confused does she speak English? 

     

    DH and I think when she said ON ABLE she was trying to say UNABLE!

    Put it this way when the girl tries to say something like this "They are so cute" she types "Then are so cute" she also uses YOUR when she means You're! She oh she spells her husbands name Brain...I am sure you can gather what his name actually is! She also thinks WATER is spelt like this WHATAR

    Like I said she is born and raised in NJ and speaks english!

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  • My favorite is that she can't afford a phone, but somehow can afford internet to email you... What a mess!

    Unexplained. IVF#2 worked! Beta at 10dp6dt = 154, Beta at 13dp6dt = 603 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • imagerockvillebride:

    My favorite is that she can't afford a phone, but somehow can afford internet to email you... What a mess!

    That is what DH said! They can also afford to send there 4 old daughter to what the call preschool 5 days a week FULL day! That "school" they are referring to is not a preschool, it is a daycare and they do do any really preschool things. We looked into recently!

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