Anyone waiting a year or more to TTC again (pic/tic warning)

xnbride

So after this most recent loss I feel like I can't do it again. I need time. I honestly am still undecided whether or not we will TTC again. I feel so many conflicting emotions about it. There are moments in which I feel like I am ready to move on and super content with what I have, and then the next moment I will feel ready to TTC again. Am I a glutton for pain? I guess I just am so hopeful even though the pain is so overwhelming. I feel guilty for wanting more. I feel guilty for not wanting more. I am a mess. Is anyone else in a similar place?

tiffany119

I had very conflicting ideas until today when DH said he would like to try as soon as we get cleared from the Dr. (have some other health issues that need to be monitored first).

I will be praying for you as you decide what is best for your family. Big hugs to you.

romigu

i think its understandable to take as much time as you need.  Even if you are physically clear to start trying in a couple of months, you may not be emotionally prepared.  Everyone needs a different amount of time to grieve and there are no timelines in this situation.  I wish you the strength to pull this this.