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I really dont know what to do or think?

adapcadapc
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
i did a home test on the 12/31 and the results were the we were prengnan, but on the 01/16 we lost it. its so painfull and their are no words for this feelings of mine. i'm so confused and hurt cause we wanted this baby we all our heart. someone help me and tell me how to get over this?
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Re: I really dont know what to do or think?

  • SheLovesMrHipSheLovesMrHip member
    It will take time my friend! I am so sorry and we are all here for you going through the same feelings. I know how you feel as I had a bfp one week, went to the doctor and all was good, then the next week my labs were the same as they were 4 days prior which meant not good! Going through mc right now. I am here for you and understand 100 percent!!!!
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  • ElizabethWeberElizabethWeber

    I lost mine when I did not even know we were expecting I had no symptoms of being pregnant... It turned out I was three months when I lost my first baby on July 15 of last year... All my doctor told me was God does things for a reason I'm still not too sure what to do... But 4 months later God gave me a second chance and yeah I do still think of my first baby but there is not much I can do... All I can say is that there are support groups to help you out I go to one from time to time it helps for the time being... But I think that losing your baby is something you never get over you just learn to cope, I get scared every appointment I go to that there might be something wrong but don't let it stop you... Things do get better and I believe that happiness does prevail somewhere... Just take it one day at a time? You know? 

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  • EvergreenKaliEvergreenKali

    I'm so sorry for your loss.

    Coming to this board is a good start.  I think you need to give yourself time and permission to grieve.  I wondered how I would feel if I ever had a miscarriage and I had no idea how devastating it is.  I lost a friend two years ago when she was murdered by her boyfriend.  It's a similar grief.  It's not the same, but it's as deep.  It's waking up and knowing things are irreversibily different. 

    I just started a blog too.  Maybe that might help you.  I'm finding that my husband is wonderful, but he wants to fix everything and this can't be fixed, and my friends (whom none have experienced this) have no idea either.  The blog is a nice way to get everything out there.

    Hugs to you.  You are not alone

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  • adapcadapc

    THANKYOU VERY MUCH FOR TAKING THE TIME TO CONFORT ME AND I REALLY APRECIATED. NOW  I FEEL MUCH BETTER BUT I WILL NEVER FORGET MY ANGELS. I'M HAPPY TO TELL YOU THE WE R TRYING AGAIN AND HOPEFULLY THIS TIME WILL WORK.

    THANK YOU TO VERYONE OF YOU WHO REPLY TO ME THANKYOU VERY MUCH AND ITS FEEL SO GOOD THE OTHER PEOPLE FEEL YOUR PAIN THANKSAGAIN FROM THE BOTTON OF MY HEART AND MY HUSBAND.

    MR. CAMPOS & MRS. CAMPOS

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  • adapcadapc

    I;M SO HAPPY FOR U N YOUR HUNBAND. GOD BLESS THE PRINCESS OF YOURS SHE SO CUTE AND WICH ME LUCK WITH MY TRYING. THANKYOU AGAIN

    MRS. CAMPOS

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