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RE office fail

So I wake up early to go before work for my appt. They never put me in the computer so the girl at the desk made it seem like I came in with no appt because I don't know who I spoke with when I called. So this cycle is out because she said I need to schedule a consult with a Dr since I haven't been in in 6 months. I'm so mad and upset right now because I planned on the fet starting. Now I will have a long cycle and go back in march to cycle. I was able to make an appt with a Dr tomorrow, not mine but at this point I don't care what RE I see. Dh is coming with me tomorrow because he is annoyed by how they acted.

Jenn

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IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

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    Sorry this happened to you. She is probably a FH who doesn't get why couples visiting an RE are a little upset when things don't happen on schedule. Ive encountered similar attitudes and ironically is is usually when I love the DR but the staff is rude and inconsiderate!

     

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    I'm sorry, that's so frustrating.   I would mention it at your appt. tomorrow.
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    Thanks, I'm definitely talking to the dr tomorrow. I was in tears this morning and she told me no one was in to speak to anyway. I'm so annoyed I changed my work schedule today for this appt and it was a waste to do that. Just stinks because now I'm taking it as a sign as maybe it will never happen for me.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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    Wow, fail indeed. I am so sorry, what a twit.
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    I'm sorry for your craptastic Dr. appt fail! I hope the rest of today goes better for you.
    Started TTC in 2/09. Dx with PCOS in 09/09. BFP on 11/7/09.
    Dx with Ectopic on 12/7/09. Laparoscopy, D&C, and lost my left tube on 12/08/09.
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    That sucks!!!
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    That really sucks. I'm so sorry.

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    I'm sorry.  That's a big time fail!
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    That?s ridiculous! I?m so sorry you have to go through this

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    That sucks! I'm so sorry Sad
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    I'm so sorry.  Is there any chance you could start the FET cycle tomorrow when you meet with the RE?  I hope it works out. 
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    I'm sorry, thats awful that they treated you that way.  I hope there is still someway they can do the FET.  ((hugs))
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