oh goodness

ADub09

DH's brother and sister in law phoned tonight, she peed on a stick this morning and guess what after their first month of trying for #2 she is pregnant! I am so sad, I have crawled into bed and don't plan on coming out.  WTF who calls the same day the get the + sign?  Apparently everyone's reaction has been "Oh my I wonder how A & A are going to feel"  The worse part is we are babysitting our nephew tomorrow afternoon, as much as I tried to get out of it, we are going to do it but I am leaving at drop off and pick up times.  

lckcdc3

Ouch Ouch Ouch.  So sorry hun. That really stings. ((HUGS))

cutebride73

Oh gosh - I am so sorry (((hugs))).  How insensitive!!  I mean obviously they had to tell you, but perhaps they could have waited a few days.  I hope the babysitting goes okay tomorrow.  I think leaving for the drop off and pick up is a good idea. 

crystalmarcellin

I have been in your shoes also! My SIL has gotten PG 3 times since we have been trying. Sadly she lost 2 of them. She already has 2 baby girls. She is trying again in Feb to get PG again and every time that she has gotten PG it only took her 1 month of trying to get KU. Not to mention that past two times that she has announced she got a + HPT have weirdly been the same day that I start AF.

Not once has she been senstive to my feelings and just blurts out, " So I'm PG" Uggh She knows all the struggles I have been going through and she seems to flaunt her fertlie mertlieness right in my face. I am just waiting for her to announce it again here pretty soon.

Sorry for my rant I just know how hard this is and how it just breaks your heart. Hang in there, we will get out turn eventually.

ADub09

Thanks so much ladies, I think I have cried all the tears I have tonight.  I am really thankful for the support of this board.

kellyjg123

That is so hard.  As the months go on and more of my friends get pregnant I find myself feeling more pain and bitterness about it.  Of course outwardly (and honestly) I am happy for them, but it's like rock salt in the wound.  Hope your weekend gets better.

ondjima

Man, that SUCKS!!!! People are idiots.

OodlesOfNoodles

I'm sorry.  It really is hard and something fertiles can't understand;(  It's truly unexplainable how and why we feel the way we do when someone announces a BFP.  I hope you can feel better:)

missjul61

Ugh so sorry. I hate that it's so easy for some but so difficult for us.