Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

Everyone around me...

Seems to be getting PG.  Seriously....I mean....ugh.  I know most of them don't even know about my m/c but it like just rubbing it in my face you know?  Hard not to just resent them, even though I'm happy for them to...kinda.  It just annoys me.  It seriously makes it feel like I never had any happy news of my own ever.  This seem to be happening to anyone else?
Nov. 19, 2010 BFP #1--m/c Dec. 24th, 2010 First cycle after m/c on Feb. 2, 2011--March 8th, 2011 BFP #2 EDD Nov. 19, 2011. Nadia Dorothy Grace born on 11-18-11 @ 3:04pm 6lbs 14oz Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

Re: Everyone around me...

  • Sorry you are feeling this way but I want you to know that what you are feeling is completely normal.  I think we all go through those feelings.   I know a lot of people that are pregnant and I just cringe at the thought of hearing of anyone else announcing a new pg.  I feel like I'm in a race and I'm the looser in last place. 

     

    ((HUGS))

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  • Sometimes I feel the same way.  I see it on the blurbs on Facebook, the ladies who are at work, etc...but then I wonder how many of them went through the silent struggle that my husband and I went through/are going through and I just didn't know at the time.  Our happy time will come.

    Had lunch with a friend today who is 20w and I would have been about 14w so I see the things she is going through, etc. and then she complains about the weight gain, etc....BUT she had a m/c in 2009 so I know she knows what it's like to be where we are....it must just feel so foreign once you get pregnant...or at least for some?  I don't take it personal (at least I try not to)...

    Sorry you're going through this, too...

    (and another coworker announced hers today but she's been trying for about 2 years so I know she knows the struggle, too...)

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  • 3 people i know announced today on facebook. one specifically is as far as i should be. i may venture away from facebook for awhile. i can't really feel happy for anyone else, and thats not very nice of me.  

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