Hey Ladies,
I just read a post about someone trying to find a book about Miscarriage. My neighbor gave me a great book that was written two women who experienced m/c themselves. This is a book you want to read under the covers with a box of tissues.
Miscarriage: Women Sharing From the Heart by Marie Allen, PhD and Shelly Marks, MS
The opening note in the book: "Dear Mother, Regardless of the length of time you were pregnant, you carried a real living being in your womb. That little being, your baby, died. What you are feeling is grief, a complex, yet natural response to loss. We will give you information about the feelings you may experience in response to your loss. Although the future appears dark, you will survive. You will find your strength along the way. You will see the light of day again. Together we'll hold steadfast thorough the tears. Shelly and Marie"
Another good (religious) book. Heaven is for Real by Todd Burpo. This book helped confirm my belief that our baby is in heaven and we will see her one day.
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Homestudy 7/19/2011
IVF#2 CX due to Adoption Match
We were blessed with our daughter through the gift of adoption
IVF #2.1 ET 2 embryos 2/14/13 7 frosties
Re: Recommended Books
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BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010
BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)
3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!
Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500
First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat
LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!
TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015
Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015
Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270
First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.
JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.
TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]