Any update from mymarriageisover?

dana316

I can't get that post off my mind...my heart is broken for her, whoever she is.

Any update from her? 

 

firsttogo

I was thinking of her as I bitched about my hubs the other night, and tried to snap some perspective into myself.

Thinking of you lady. 

Courted

Yeah, I was thinking about her today as well. 

mel72

firsttogo:

I was thinking of her as I bitched about my hubs the other night, and tried to snap some perspective into myself.

Thinking of you lady. 

Ditto this.  DH and I haven't had an argument in 8 days (of course we didn't talk for the 7 before that).  But I can't imagine being in her shoes.

Cassian

I hope she is alright and we hear something soon. I have been thinking about her and her family a lot.

howleyshell

This may sound awful but I keep hoping it was some bored person from another board doing a bit MUD post because I can't bear to think of one of our ladies going thru this.

dana316

howleyshell:

This may sound awful but I keep hoping it was some bored person from another board doing a bit MUD post because I can't bear to think of one of our ladies going thru this.

Doesn't sound awful at all...I keep hoping that too, for the same reasons.

 

kittylove

dana316:

howleyshell:

This may sound awful but I keep hoping it was some bored person from another board doing a bit MUD post because I can't bear to think of one of our ladies going thru this.

Doesn't sound awful at all...I keep hoping that too, for the same reasons.

 

I was/am hoping the exact same thing for the same reasons. That said if it is one of our girls, my heart is broken for her.

Magoy

howleyshell:

This may sound awful but I keep hoping it was some bored person from another board doing a bit MUD post because I can't bear to think of one of our ladies going thru this.

Oh me, too!  I kept thinking... "please don't let this be real!"  

crystalgirl

I was going to ask where this post was but just found it... I could obviously be totally wrong, but it doesn't read "real" to me.  I hope it's MUD.  And if not, I'm very sorry to whomever is going through that.  There is actually a very well-known former regular who went through almost exactly the same thing...

tapgirl

I've been thinking about her a lot, too.  I really hope it is MUD, too.

mymarriageisover

I promise you this not MUD!

 

We are supposed to leave on vacation in a few weeks with our children and my parents. I really do not want him to come but I need to find more proof. I just can't throw away years of marriage and lives we created. I have an appointment with therapist this week, also a lawyer. I want to talk to the therapist most of all and see what her insite is! I haven't really seen him to much because he is on call this weekend. I actually told my mother was sick and she took the kids to her last night. I just needed an entire night to myself to think!

tapgirl

mymarriageisover:

I promise you this not MUD!

 

We are supposed to leave on vacation in a few weeks with our children and my parents. I really do not want him to come but I need to find more proof. I just can't throw away years of marriage and lives we created. I have an appointment with therapist this week, also a lawyer. I want to talk to the therapist most of all and see what her insite is! I haven't really seen him to much because he is on call this weekend. I actually told my mother was sick and she took the kids to her last night. I just needed an entire night to myself to think!

I'm glad to hear you are going to talk to a lawyer and a therapist.  I hope they can give you some insight and direction.  The idea of going on vacation right now has to just make you sick.  Keeping you in my thoughts.

InACitySoNice

I never imagined it was MUD.  And I cannot imagine having to endure this. 

dana316

mymarriageisover:

I promise you this not MUD!

 

We are supposed to leave on vacation in a few weeks with our children and my parents. I really do not want him to come but I need to find more proof. I just can't throw away years of marriage and lives we created. I have an appointment with therapist this week, also a lawyer. I want to talk to the therapist most of all and see what her insite is! I haven't really seen him to much because he is on call this weekend. I actually told my mother was sick and she took the kids to her last night. I just needed an entire night to myself to think!

Bless your heart.  I just cannot imagine how you must be feeling.  We are here if you need us...and please keep us updated. 

 

Smudges*Mom

Thanks for checking in. I hope that your appointment with the therapist helps. Keep in mind that therapy is like other relationships. If you don't click with her, you can look for a different counselor. I have seen some BAD therapists and a couple of good ones. There is a big difference! Hoping things become more clear for you.