Stupid emotions!!

renee3n2008

So I had a complete break down last night. My DH and I shoot in a pool league Thursday nights. My best friend that just had a baby in August shoots on my team. So I have been hearing about her pregnancy and baby for over a year now. I had a hard time with it in the beginning but I have been slowly learning to be happy for her.

Now another girl we know is pregnant and we shoot against her team last night. They talked what seemed like forever about registries and baby stuff and pregnancy I wanted to scream. I ended up leaving early and balling my eyes out the whole way home. Why am I so bitter? It did not help that DH wasn't with me.

I didn't get to see DH last night so I test him telling him about what happened and he never responded. I wish he was better at helping me get thru the emotions of all of this. There is really no point to this post but I just needed to get that out. Sigh... If you made it this far thanks.

leecrystalwed08

OMG! totally understand... I bowl on thursday night with my girlfirends and 3..count them 3 of my friends all got pregnant together. I want to shoot myself by the time I leave!

It will be ok...Well that's what people keep telling me!

katib77

We all have that now and then.  Some Dh's are better than others at what to say but know that whenever you feel like that, you can at least come here and get some comfort.  I'm sorry that a time for fun and relaxing turned into emotional torture but know that they didn't mean to hurt you, and neither did you DH by not responding...I'm sure he just didn't know what to say.  Sorry.  Hope you can find some time this weekend to just relax with your DH and forget about it.

incantato

Oh my Gosh! I am so hearing you! People just don't get it sometimes! My pregnant friend is hosting a baby shower for her sister-in-law, well, she asked me to be a back-up host just in case she goes into labor before the shower!! I don't think I can emotionally pull that off! I just wanted to cry when she asked! Sometimes as great as our friends are they just can't see how deep they cut you when you are emotionally compromised!

hopeful78

We've been trying TTC for about 9 months now. this is month 10.

My best friend is due any day now with her second child, and another friend of ours just got pregnant on "the first try!" 2 of my colleagues are pregnant and the more obnoxious one has become even more so by talking about this "thing is growing inside me!" every other hour. She was annoying before, so I don't know if it's just the pregnancy that's annoying me. My supervisor just had her first child at 40, so at 33 maybe I shouldn't be too worried.

It is tough though when I've heard most of these girls, who are in their 20's saying they got pregnant on the very first try. I try not to get upset when i take the pregnancy tests, and staying hopeful! Bitter is ugly.