I don't have any bleeding or cramping or anything and I went in for my first sonogram (assuming everything was normal) and they told me the pregnancy was not viable. We scheduled a D&C for tomorrow, but today we have had second thoughts.
After speaking with the Dr. and my husband we decided to wait until we do another sonogram on Tuesday to confirm that it's no longer developing. I know we are probably just delaying the inevitable, but I don't want to look back and wonder 'what if?'
So my question is, did any of you have a D&C after just one sonogram (no bleeding or other symptoms of mc? Or did you confirm it with a second? Just want to get your input since my first mc was natural and my body made the decision for me.
Thank you
Re: How many Sonograms did you have before a D&C
I think nothing but good can come from getting a second u/s.
You need to have complete peace of mind before undergoing a D&C. I don't really have any advice for you I naturally miscarried and saw our baby before my D&C, but if I were in your situation I would definitely get a second one.
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I had 4... It was a LONG month. Things were developing, but very little. My first was 5w6d, then a week later, measured 6w1d with h/b of 103, then a week later 6w4d with h/b of 86, then this week, 6w1d, no heartbeat... I was supposed to be 9 weeks when all was said and done.
I definitely would want to be sure, but the waiting was SO hard for us.
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I totally agree! Definately get a second u/s or second opinion if you are not 100% sure. Mine didn't have a heartbeat at 11 weeks and was way too small, so I ws 100% with just one u/s, but you should have absolutely no doubts.
I'm so sorry that you are having to go through this a second time. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers/
I agree that you really need peace of mind before a D&C.
I had an u/s three weeks prior to our m/c where we saw a beautiful baby, heartbeat at 174.
3 weeks later, I had a tiny bit of spotting one day, had an appt the next day to make sure things were okay. The baby was 2 weeks smaller than it should have been and no heartbeat. We scheduled the d&c for two days later. I still had some doubts. What if they're wrong? What if the machine wasn't working right?
The next day I started m/c naturally and of course that convinced me that this was really happening and helped provide closure.
So I said all that to say - you should get a second u/s just for peace of mind. It may or may not change the diagnosis, but at least you'll know. Not being certain and always wondering what if would be so terrible.
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My first u/s was suppose to be my 12w scan, but found out there was only an empty sac. My doc diagnosed me with a missed miscarriage (but has now changed it to a blighted ovum), but sent me for a 2nd u/s to confirm that nothing was there. My scans were done in two different offices, on two different machines, with two different techs, but their diagnoses were the same, so I was satisfied.
You need to be 100% sure before you do a D&C. Get a 2nd opinion if it will bring you peace of mind. Good luck to you!
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We had weekly u/s starting at 6 weeks (I was seeing an RE). Everything was perfect until week 9 when there was no heartbeat. That u/s was on a Tuesday. My RE had me come back the next day to confirm that they weren't missing anything. Then on Thursday they did one more u/s (while I was under anesthesia) before doing the d&c.
I am so sorry you are going through this (((hugs)))
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