Still nothing....

madiegirl83

Ugh... I just want all this to be over already... which means I need it to just start already!!  I have had no real cramping, no bleeding, not even any spotting.  It makes me wonder if all this is even true?  What if the MD was wrong and he just couldn't see anything just it was too small? or in the wrong place?  Then I start to get my hopes up that I am going to go to the OB on Friday and this will all  have been just a nightmare! But then I remember the look on my OB's face, the way he sounded when he said he doesn't feel this is a viable pregnancy.... and then I just get down again!  If I am going to m/c I just wish it would happen already... I don;t know how long I can handle this roller coaster!  Sorry for the rant... thanks for listening!

pregnantchica

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This is how it was for me.  I went thru three weeks of not knowing what was going to happen (in my heart I knew what the end result was going to be).  My gyn sent me to 2 sonograms and drew blood before we came to conclusion that I miscarried.  It was the longest three weeks of my life!

All I can say is that if you feel that you need another sonogram to confirm things once more, ask for it. 

aneesahc

Sorry to hear that Madie.  I'm going through the same waiting game.  My first appt, there was no sac, no baby, no hb.  I should have been 7w1d based on LMP.  My first betas were 4470 and my doc is diagnosis me with ectopic or missed abortion.  Either way, I have no symptoms or pain.  I took another round blood work and I'll see what the betas are before deciding on a D&C or methotrexate.  This is the worse outcome ever.  This would have been my first...I was all ready to get a sono pic of my baby

madiegirl83

Thanks ladies.  This is so hard for all of us... and so not fair. Last Friday I should have been 7w3d and he could see the sac but couldn't see baby or hb.  I have a u/s to confirm on Friday, and then I will probably go next week for a second opinion at my old OB's office (I only switched because I moved) before I schedule a d&c or take meds...  

abbs20

I am playing the waiting game as well.  We found out Dec. 3rd that our baby is very sick and will not survive.  I have had an u/s every Monday since then to check for a heartbeat.  I am now over 24 weeks and it is obvious to everyone that I am pregnant.  It is so hard to answer question about our baby.  I just want it to all be over.  I am sorry you have to play the waiting game too and I will pray for your acceptance and peace. 

Fallon621

So so so sorry you are going through this!  (((HUGS)))  I hope this is all over for you soon.  Although i wish there didnt have to an "over" or an "end" for any of us.