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TTC after loss

pnkfaeriepnkfaerie member
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I'm sooooo impatient! I'm pretty sure that i'm ovulating this week and I'm nervous but I want to be pregnant soooo bad. :( I don't think it's POSSIBLE for my next to have the CCAM. *sigh*
married 9/2010
DS1 11/2010 (angel)
DS2 5/2012
DS3 4/2015
New baby 6/2020
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Re: TTC after loss

  • HadleySHadleyS member
    I need to look up what CCAM is, but I sure do hope that you get your wish.  It's tough to wait, but there are many brave and strong women on this board that will wish you well, and we all have the same wish, hence the name of the board.  Try out some of the other posts, there were a lot today that were good distractions for me, thanks by the way to all of you who posted one of those up!  (((hugs)))
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  • HadleySHadleyS member
    I am so sorry, I thought this was on the TTCAL board.  I am deeply sorry for your loss and (((hugs))) to you.   That is how I should have started my first post.  This is a wonderful place if you are looking for comfort, compassion, and healing.  Everyone on here i wonderful and amazing.
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    BFP 03/03/11, EDD 11/09/11, We love you so much already, our sweet little munchkin!!!
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    *Congrats to buddies MrsAtch, cflocco, MommyandKate, luckylady55, opallover, trishiepoo, stephsteph77, and Pachita! Praying for healthy babies for all of you!*
    *Congrats to my buddy, Izabella22 (BFP 5/11/11)!!!Sending you Ts and Ps for a healthy, take-home baby!
    *Congrats to my buddy, myaddiwaddi06(BFP 10/31/11)!!!Sending you Ts and Ps for a healthy, take-home baby!
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  • pnkfaeriepnkfaerie member
    I'm a little mixed between ttc and loss...I just lost in Nov but I wanna get on the horse. I'm still trying to cope, but I'm so ready to try again. It hurts and helps to know that others are going through the pain that I am.
    married 9/2010
    DS1 11/2010 (angel)
    DS2 5/2012
    DS3 4/2015
    New baby 6/2020
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  • ekmOCekmOC

    imagepnkfaerie:
    I'm a little mixed between ttc and loss...I just lost in Nov but I wanna get on the horse. I'm still trying to cope, but I'm so ready to try again. It hurts and helps to know that others are going through the pain that I am.

     

    That's completely understandable.  You wouldn't be the first woman to heal in part by moving on with a new pregnancy ;)  Actually, I have several friends who have told me just that: they did not really start to heal until a subsequent pregnancy.   Everyone is different in terms of what they need, some people need more time to grieve, others need to focus on a new life and getting back to the future they had planned.  

     If there is no physical / medical reason to wait, I say go for it and best wishes. 

    We lost our beloved daughter Angeline at 30 w 5 d. http://angelinebornangel.blogspot.com/ Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • ekmOCekmOC

    imagepnkfaerie:
    I'm a little mixed between ttc and loss...I just lost in Nov but I wanna get on the horse. I'm still trying to cope, but I'm so ready to try again. It hurts and helps to know that others are going through the pain that I am.

     

    That's completely understandable.  You wouldn't be the first woman to heal in part by moving on with a new pregnancy ;)  Actually, I have several friends who have told me just that: they did not really start to heal until a subsequent pregnancy.   Everyone is different in terms of what they need, some people need more time to grieve, others need to focus on a new life and getting back to the future they had planned.  

     If there is no physical / medical reason to wait, I say go for it and best wishes. 

    We lost our beloved daughter Angeline at 30 w 5 d. http://angelinebornangel.blogspot.com/ Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • mom22labsmom22labs member

    I was in the same boat after my first AF.  I knew when I was ovulating, and I felt the same way.  Because I was unsure I'm deciding to wait until my 2nd AF to see how I feel and give my body a little more time to heal.  If I don't try next month it will be because I just want to get in better shape and lose a little more weight.  Which is what I will probably do.

     

    BFP #1 10/05/10 (EDD 6/10/11) , natural m/c 11/24/10 BFP #2 1/20/12 (EDD 9/20/12) , natural m/c 3/3/12 BFP #3 10/09/12 (EDD 6/20/12), hoping third times a charm
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