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I think I'm finally getting over myself

missred75missred75 member
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I've really been struggling lately with BFP announcements and friends of mine who are pregnant. I don't know what happened, but this past week, my whole attitude about it has changed. It may be due to the fact that I'm planning some phone consults with several REs, but I'm so grateful for the change! I hate being Bitter Betty!
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  • Rachael07.07.07Rachael07.07.07 member
    I think that's the nature of the beast. It's cyclical. There are times when I just don't know how I can be happy for anyone and have to plaster the fake smile on and then it's like I somehow break out of it. I think that sometimes it helps when we reach the internal point of knowing that "ok, it's really happening" and once we accept that, our outlook improves. Plus when you are on a break and things are going wrong left and right, I think it's just a combo of things. I'm much less a Bitter Betty right now because we're actually cycling again. GL with all the consults!
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  • steveandkim2steveandkim2 member
    I'm glad you're feeling better!  I think its cyclical and just the nature of the IF beast.
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  • babystinkbreathbabystinkbreath member

    imagesteveandkim2:
    I'm glad you're feeling better!  I think its cyclical and just the nature of the IF beast.

    ditto this.  I'm still not totally over myself but i'm getting there.  I'm glad to see you on here again.  Missed you here even though I do see you over on NBC Cool

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  • Jlynn3Jlynn3

    I completely understand and agree with the girls that it is the nature of the beast.

    Good luck with your upcoming consults!

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  • thewormstheworms member

    glad you are on the upswing cutie - IF sucks :(

    GL w/ consults, I hope your get a great plan and a sticky BFP

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    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
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  • vanessagorcvanessagorc member

    imagesteveandkim2:
    I'm glad you're feeling better!  I think its cyclical and just the nature of the IF beast.

    I agree and im really happy ur feeling better!

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  • wewannababywewannababy

    HUGS!!!  I'm glad you are moving forward!!  :-)

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  • scooterqscooterq member

    Big ((hugs))!!  I'm glad you're starting to feel better!

    I agree that it's cyclical and I think we all go through it.  IF blows!

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