I know it will get better.

cdupree10

Hi ladies. I have never posted on here before and I never thought that when I finally did post I would be posting on this topic. Today seems to be the hardest day of all for some reason. Sunday 1/9 after church I started experiencing cramps like AF was on its way. I was 6 weeks on sunday with our first baby. When we got home my husband and I looked up the symptoms and it seemed like other women have had the same symptoms and it could be normal. Well I then started to spot, nothing bad but of course enough to make me worry. I called the doctors office and spoke to the ob that was on call and he assured me that was usually normal. But if I wanted to call on Monday they would certainly get me in just to ease my mind. He basically just told me to rest for the time being. So I did just that. I woke up that morning about 1am and I was not just spotting, but I was bleeding. I immediatly woke my husband up to take me to the ER. We were discharged 6 hours later with the news that I had lost the baby. I know I was just 6 wks, but a loss is a loss. I prayed so hard everday and I was just so happy to finally know I was going to be a mother. Today has been the first day I could actually get up out of bed, and I have been reading your stories and they have comforted me all day long. My husband has been great, he has known what to say at right the time and just comfort me when there was nothing to say. I know God has not forgot about us, he has a plan for everyone and our time will come again. My OB appt is tomorrow and hopefully she will give us good news, and maybe in a couple of months we can try to start our family again. I pray for each and everyone of you, I just know you all will be blessed again with a precious child.

lauren.cus

I am so sorry for your loss. While I hate the reason, I'm glad you found your way here. These women are AMAZING!!!! I hope we can offer you some support.

bsgbcgdr9

I am sorry for your loss!!

I have only been lurking here for about 3 1/2 weeks but the ladies here seem soo supportive!   

and I agree, a loss is a loss, we lost our first at 5w3d and I was completely heartbroken! and we will all be blessed again at some point!

WifeyWynn0626

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you can find some comfort here. Yes, while everyone says a loss is a loss, you have even reason to grieve and be upset regardless of how far along you were. ((Hugs)) And while it sucks, I'm glad you've found this board, the women here are amazing.

MegMeg0913

I am sorry that you are having to go through this. ~hugs~  

I hope that you continue to find comfort everyday!

Niftyroses

I am so sorry for your loss.  It's nice to meet you.  I think you have the right attitude.  "It's God's plan" is my current most spoken statement.  I hope you can keep strong in your faith. 

These three remain; faith, hope, and love.  And the greatest of these is love. 

I hope we'll all be back on the pregnancy boards together in a few months.

We'll all be ok, it just takes time.

Time....I just want to fast forward time to get through this part. 

sisterrael

I am sorry for your loss.  The heartache does lessen to some extent with time, and I love that you are trying to stay positive.  This is a wonderful place to recieve support. 

MrsAtch

I'm so sorry. You will have good days and bad days- and it's important to let yourself grieve and feel how you're feeling. I am sending you good energy for a fast and healthy physical and emotional recovery.