An update, of sorts :)

BubblyToes

After a very, very, very rough Friday, Hubster and I had a major marriage talk on Saturday.  We both realize that things have not been the same, and we do feel that the whole IF thing has really taken it's toll.  But we also agree that we don't feel our family is complete.  He says he's been worried about me, about my mental state because he says I seem to be depressed, which is an honest assessment. 

We have made a commitment to start accentuating the positive, and to be more cognizant of each other.

After getting the bloodtest results back, and finding out that our issue is most likely easily treatable, we have decided that we really do want to give things one more shot.  But we're going to wait until probably around the end of March.  We want enough distance between us and the last cycle, plus the we plan to use this time to strengthen our marriage to what it was before.

I'm still boycrazy.  I always will be.  That's never been an issue in my marriage.  He's still a sports fanatic, and always will be.  If either of us changed that, we wouldn't be who we are.

I can honestly say that for the last couple of days, I've felt happier.  I think clearing the air, and NOT holding everything in anymore really made a difference.

Thanks to all of you for your continued support.  I love you guys.

camrude

It sounds like you are in a good place and that is AWESOME!

r9stedt

AnnapolisLari

Yay, Bubs!

I am so glad. I have a good feeling about your chances of getting pregnant now that you know what the dealio is.

Temp374386125003286

That's great!

Hugs!

Marchmamma

Hugs!

EMT

Glad to read this Bubs! I wanted to mention that I almost posted that pic of Adam Levine in the boy crazy post...just cause. And then you posted it on FB, made me chuckle!

cooker71

Well GOOD. Good for you guys sitting down and talking about it and being honest with each other. That's awesome.

*HUGS* 

BubblyToes

EMT, that pic has done so much to raise my, um, awareness.  LOL

EMT

BubblyToes:

EMT, that pic has done so much to raise my, um, awareness.  LOL

He is so freakin hot.

Kapalua

That's awesome Bubs! It's always better when it's all out on the table.

BubblyToes

I've heard from multiple sources that he's a completedick, but that's okay with me.  I don't want to have a conversation with him, just look at him.

MelandJeff

BubblyToes:

I've heard from multiple sources that he's a completedick, but that's okay with me.  I don't want to have a conversation with him, just look at him.

I much prefer he is silent. Just be naked. And silent. A moan or groan here and there is acceptable, however.

BubblyToes

MelandJeff:

BubblyToes:

I've heard from multiple sources that he's a completedick, but that's okay with me.  I don't want to have a conversation with him, just look at him.

I much prefer he is silent. Just be naked. And silent. A moan or groan here and there is acceptable, however.

You are so wise.

eclaires

LOVE this update. 

EMT

I'm sorry, what did you say Bubs?

 

Probably totally NOT appropriate in an update re: marriage post?

 

BubblyToes

The second one?  OMG, I die a little everytime I see it.

sooosie

EMT:

I'm sorry, what did you say Bubs?

 

Probably totally NOT appropriate in an update re: marriage post?

 

Littlejen22

I have not been on here like I used to be but knew you were having issues so I am glad that things seem to be getting better.  But I must ask what the boycrazy comment means, I must have missed something.

Yodajo

*I* can feel the weight lifted in your update.  Glad you guys  talked and are feeling better!

cnybride2be

this post. it is all good.

the talking with the bub's hubs.  sometimes a little verbal confirmation and understanding goes a long way...and can be a good reminder to continue it. 

the nekked man pictures.

yup.  i'm just glad for this post. and i'm only a teeny weeny bit boy crazy. but damn.