Am upset after my F/U for D&C....

clarks415

I went to my follow up today which started badly. I left work early to get there. Then they tell me I am not down for an appt today! My hubby was there, and was also there when I called to make the appt b/c we had to discuss days and times, etc. But whoever set it up didn't put it in the system. So the receptionist checked with the dr and they said they'd see me. Then a nurse starts yelling at her for adding me on... anyway it was unnecessary drama.

My OB said it was most likely chromosomal. Then began telling me she doesnt like how high my blood pressure was at the first appt, which was a concern I brought up. So then my pressure was still kind of high at this appt so she told me to follow up with my family dr. Then told me to check with my Rheum Dr about my RA b/c she felt that maybe could be a factor... Then she sent me for bloodwork to check hormone levels and my thyroid. I am just worried something else bad it going to happen. I wanted today to be like a closure but now I am upset worrying about everything...

Am I overreacting? I tell myself she is just double checking stuff but I am still concerned. 

ohbabyoh

I'm sorry your appointment didn't go well, and can totally understand why you would be disappointed and upset.  I don't think you are overreacting at all.  My doc ordered another pelvic u/s at my follow up appointment and I broke down / freaked out in my car after.

I think that heightened sensitivity is a big factor when things catch you off guard like this... it definitely is that way for me, not just with physical/health stuff.  Honestly, it sounds like they just want to be on the safe side and check these things out.  They didn't do a very good job of easing your mind.

Try to relax as much as possible and just follow through on all of it.  I hope you get the closure you need soon.

WifeyWynn0626

I'm sorry your doctor is putting you through more testing. Maybe it is necessary for the additional testing for any future pregnancies. I'd be worried too but, I would trust that my doctor was doing what they needed to do to help, not hinder. I hope you get good results and can get some closure soon. ((hugs))