coworker complaint

lotus88

So a woman from another agency came to assess one of my patients. I see her maybe three times a year. She asks me what my middle name is becuase she likes my first name and is pregnant and trying to think of middle names that match.  Then she proceeds to complain about being pregnant.  Now, she doesn't know about my pg or loss, but still. I could barely stay in the room and had an awful time concentrating on what she was saying after that point. I was literally trying to stop myself from pacing while I waited for her to copy parts of his chart and couldn't get her out the door fast enough.  Just wanted to vent. Thanks for listening.

jrevord

That would kill me too. I understand it though because I have a close friend that recently had a child while I recently miscarried and she would constantly complain about being pregnant and now she complains about taking care of her child. Nothing gets on my nerves more than that.. It just seems that those who want babies cant, while those who do not want them have no problem.

lavril

Ugh, that sucks!  People take it all for granted. I will have such a different perspective next time and I think I'll cherish every ache, pain, and discomfort!

buckeyebaby814

I've had that happen to me too.  I have 3 pregnant friends who are always complaining about their pregnancy and I would give anything to have morning sickness and sore breasts again!

LDW80

I am just waiting for the pregnant person to come up to me and start complaining.  I promise you I will snap or make her feel like an idiot.  Like lavril said, I will definitely not take this pregnancy for granted, not that I didn't before but I won't care at all about the m/s, cramps (uterus growing related), sore boobs and indegestion.

WifeyWynn0626

My KU BFF just posted on FB (which is how I communicate with her since I can't talk to her, I'm not ready..) how sore she is and she wishes her baby would shift so she could get comfortable. She knows about my loss so, I'd have thought she wouldn't b**ch about it since someone so close to her lost a baby. But, I guess it really is something you need to experience before you don't take a healthy pregnancy for granted.