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Today was my ER (longish)

Good evening ladies. I just woke up and am going to do my best to give you an update. I'm still so sleepy!

This morning started off sitting in dead stop traffic on the motorway and we were 15 mins late. That was awful, but they nurses/docs were so nice about it all. I hate to be late.

Well they took me back to get me prepped and ready- I told DH bye as they wheeled me off and sent him to do his part... My RN, she took me to empty my bladder- easy but I was a bit groggy from the valuim. Then she took me to THE room. She began to push the meds to put me out but I was still awake, so the doctor comes over and pushes another drug to put me out... still awake- they tried for about 20 mins before the doctor announces, "jamie I'm sorry- this is a timed matter and we gotta move. You're just gonna have to be awake... and so I WAS. It hurt so badly, I begged them to stop.

He was able to get "THE 3" off of my left that we knew were there, but then when he went to the right side, my nurse had to get up on the bed and push on my belly to help him. OUCH! He began to try to extract one but I hollered, please no more I can't take it. My blood pressure shot up and then bottomed out. I was about to pass out from the pain. The doctor said the ones he saw on the right didn't seem mature enough anyways, so there was no need to make me go on anymore. I was in for a little over an hour. And we only got 3 eggs. They were so nice and talked to me the whole time but I was so scared.  

And I still am... only 3. I just wanna know what's going on at the lab right now. Were the eggs good enough, are they or did they fertilize, will any make it through for my fert report in the morning??? I'm a mess. And while I couldn't sleep at the hospital, I've done nothing but sleep all afternoon. Thanks for all of your encouragement and support! I'll update you tomorrow after I hear. ((hugs))

Married '02, TTC May '05

Dx -Ute cancer, DOR from cancer treatments, and embryo quality issues. NOV 2010 CANCER FREE
2005-2011= 3 Rounds of Clomid, 5 IUI's, 3 IVF's- ALL BFN's
After 7yrs TTC, 5yrs of ute cancer, and 11 failed IF treatments, we got a surprise BFP! So thankful!

Gemma Grace born 09/30/12

Phillipians 4:6,7

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Re: Today was my ER (longish)

  • Oh Jamie-I'm so sorry you had such a tough ER!

    They only need 1!  Sending lots of PPV your way!

    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • That sounds awful! I'm so sorry that you had to go through that.

    I was totally out for my 1st ER and was able to work the next day, had really no pain (and they got 12 eggs). For last week's ER, I was in and out during the ER. I didn't feel pain, but could open my eyes and see what they were doing and could feel pressure. I was also totally awake when he said, "Ok, we're done, we only got 4 eggs." Weird that I was so much more alert this time. Then, I had pretty severe pain on my left side too. I think all or most of my 4 eggs were on that side and I had to take Vicodin immediately after ER. I was also still sore the next day and couldn't work due to the soreness.

    It's weird that the same procedure can be so different per cycle!

    Wedding Fall 2007 Off OCP's since 9/08-started with BBT charts Saw Ob/gyn May 2009 Blood work normal except single copy of MTHFR Clomid 50mg May 2009 Clomid 50mg + IUI June 2009 Femara 5mg + IUI July 2009 Normal HSG July 2009 Femara 5mg + ovidrel+IUI August 2009 Femara 5mg +ovidrel + IUI September 2009 November 2009-normal lap December 2009-met with RE December/January-Injectible med cycle with IUI-Abnormal sperm morpology found-only 0-1% normal All Head defects. Jan/Feb 2010 1st IVF with ICSI-5 week chemical pregnancy :( Feb 2010-male infertility doc says DH's anatomy and blood work are normal so nothing he can do. :( FET July 2010-BFP! Twin m/c @ 5.5 wks :( Dec/Jan 2011 IVF #2 Only 4 eggs retrieved-Ganirelix dose messed up BFFN Feb/March 2011 IVF #3 ER 3/9 9 eggs, 7 fertilized, ET 3/14, No frosties. BFN IVF #4 ER 8/22 9R,7F ET 8/25-3 embies, 1 frostie! Beta 9/2= 54, 9/6=274, 9/8=625, 9/12=2953, 9/16 greater than 10,000. B/G TWINS born April 2012 @ 36wks & 1 day! July 2014-going back for the frozen embryo! ET 7/28, heartbeat seen at 6wks1day with SCH. Miscarriage confirmed at 6wks4days





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  • Oh no! I am so sorry to hear that you were in so much pain for your ER.  I really wish they could have knocked you out.  I hope you are feeling better after your nap.  I cannot wait to see your fert report!  Best of luck and keep resting. 
    SAIF and PAIF Always Welcome
    07/14/97 - Stillborn twins at 22 weeks
    12/20/99 - Miscarriage #1 - 11 wks 4 days laproscopic surgery due to rupture of tube
    07/01/01 - Divorced
    05/30/09 - Re-married to a wonderful man!
    11/11/09 - Miscarriage #2 - 10 wks 3 days, D&C
    Dx: Unexplained
    07/30/10 - 10/19/10 - IUI #1 - IUI #4 clomid cd2-6 + premarin cd7-13 + HCG Trigger=BFFN's
    11/10/10 - IVF #1 Start stims ER#1 11/22, ER #2 11/24, ET 11/29=BFFN
    03/14/11 - IVF #2 start stims, ER-03/26/11, ET-03/31/11, beta 04/08/11 = BFFN
    05/16/11 - Hail Mary Cycle - Inj+TI =BFP!! 06/08/11 Beta #1 71.8, 06/10/11 Beta #2 201, U/S 6/20-1 sac. U/S 6/28 sac and hb of 118!!
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  • I'm so sorry your ER was so rough. I hope that you get a wonderful fert report tomorrow. Big hugs! Rest up!
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  • oh my gosh -- I am so sorry about your ER.

    But...SLPMel IS right -- you only need one! Lots and lots of T+Ps heading your way sweetie. Get lots of rest and I'm praying for a fantastic fert report tomorrow.

    (((hugs)))?

    TTC since 8/09
    DX: PCO, ENDO, High NK, MTHFR
    8/10 = Lap to remove Endo

    2 Femara TI, 3 Follistim IUI = BFN & 1 c/p
    IVF #1 - BFP - boy/girl Twins!

    Ben and Reese born at 34w2d!
  • Oh, hunny, what a terrible experience!! I'm so sorry you went through that! I'm keeping everything crossed for a fantastic fert report for you tomorrow. I hope you can get some good rest tonight.

    (((hugs)))

    Crohn's resulting in colectomy with J-Pouch surgery in 2000/2001.
    TTC since August 2008
    IVF#1: BFFN; IVF#2: BFN; FET with new RE: BFN
    IVF#3: ER 1/15; ET 1/20; Beta#1 1/29: 339!
    Twins girls born via c/s at 37w/3d!!
    "Let it go, this too shall pass."
  • My goodness! I'm sorry you had such a difficult ER.
    Easy to say I know, but try not to focus on the number of eggs, as pp's have said, it does only take one.

    Hope you get some rest and feel better soon.

    TTC #1 since 03/09 Dx Unexplained
    Jan to April 2010 - Clomid - All BFN
    June 2010 - IVF - BFN
    Oct 2010 - FET #1 - BFN
    Dec 2010 - endometrial biopsy
    Jan 2011 - Surprise BFP! - m/c at 6w5d
    March 2011 - FET #2. Thawed 11 Day 1 embryos; 5 'exploded' / possible lab error?
    ET 4/2/11 transferred 1 blast & 1 morula
    Beta#1 10dp5dt =81; Beta#2 12dp5dt =222 Beta#3 16dp5dt =1337
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  • Jamie I am so sorry to hear you had to go through that. Sending PPV as well that all 3 are little rock stars
  • I am sorry your ER was so rough.  I can't wait to hear about you fertility report.  I have a good feeling.  All it takes is one :)
    ::: Married June 2003:::
    TTC #1 since: Aug. 2008
    Me: 34, DOR, MTHFR-A1298C (heterozygous), decreased blood flow to uterus, Mild Endo
    DH: 38, Balanced translocation 5&10, unexplained MFI, normal SA and SCSA
    Tx History: IUI 1&2= BFN
    IVF# 1 W/ICSI= BFN
    IVF# 2: cancelled d/t no response
    IVF# 3= 1 egg retrieved=immature/not viable
    IVF# 4= c/p
    ***CCRM ODWU***
    Found DHs BT and Me-decreased blood flow to uterus
    Recommended DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. Decided to cycle locally
    ***New RE***
    DE IVF# 1(cycle #6) w/pgd, (freeze all): 30R, 23M, 15F, slow/poor embryo development, 4 biopsied, 1 Normal "Norm"; DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. 
    IVF# 6: (OE/DS) cancelled
    IVF# 7: (OE/DS) 1R, 1M, 1F, arrested day 5
    Plan-DE IVF# 2 (cycle #8): DE/DS in May 2015


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  • sorry it was such a tough, painful experience sweetie!

    hoping your eggs are all rockstars! 

     

    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

  • OMG I can't believe you had to be awake, when u weren't expecting it.  I'm so sorry it was so rough.

    Huge Hugs....and YES, it really only take one.!!

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  • Oh my!  That sounds just awful.  I'm so sorry you had to go through that.  I hope it all pays off tomorrow and you get a great fert report.  (((HUGS)))
    TTC with DOR, low morphology, fertilization issues
    IVF#1 Oct 2009 (CCRM) - BFN
    IVF#2 March 2010 - Poor response/cancelled
    DE IVF#1 Aug 2010 - BFN
    DE IVF#2 Dec 2010 - Transferred 1, 2 frozen - BFP!
    TTC#2 FET Jan 2013 - Transferred 1 - BFP!

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  • O my gosh-I am so sorry! What a terrible experience! I am so praying that is was all worth it. Please keep us updated but in the meantime, rest! You deserve it!

    SAIF/PAIF Always Welcome!
    TTC #1 May 2008
    6 Rounds Clomid, 1 Round Femera-BFN
    4 IUIs (1 Clomid, 1 Femara, 2 injectables)-BFN
    February 2010-Laparoscopy
    4 months of Lupron
    August 2010-IUI #5-BFN
    October 2010-IUI #6-BFN
    IVF #1 November 2010-BFN
    IVF #2 March 2011-BFN
  • Wow I can't even imagine! I'm so sorry it was so terrible. But I really do hope that your 3 are rockstars and all fertilize and turn into beautiful embies!

    Now get some rest-you deserve it after that ER experience!

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  • OH I am so sorry to hear this!  I hope the eggs fertilize nicely.  I can't wait to hear your fert report. 
    TTC since Jan. 2010 DX Unexplained infertility
    3 IUI's w/Clomid & Ovidrel=all BFNs
    3 IVF (2 Fresh, 1 frozen) =BFN
    Jan 2012 New RE & Fresh Cycle =BFP!
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    TTC #2 October 2014
    Meet with RE March 2015
    2 Frozen & 1 Fresh IVF= BFNs
    September 2015 Frozen ET=BFP!


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  • ((((Hugs)))))  I am so sorry this happened to you.  I am in shock that you had to be awake for your egg retrieval and there was no anesthesiologist there.  How terrible! I hope you get a great fert. report tomorrow.

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  • I'm so sorry that your procedure didn't go the way you had hoped but 3 is still a good number!! Fingers crossed for a great fert report!!
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  • sorry be positive it only takes one
  • Oh gosh that sounds terrible! I'm so sorry you had such a terrible experience. I'll be thinking of you and praying for a great fert report tomorrow!!
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  • I'm so sorry you had a rough time with it! I hope your 3 are amazing and you get great news tomorrow at your fert report.
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  • I am so sorry, sweetie, what an awful experience. I am praying that your 3 little embies are rock stars and they all fertilize. (((hugs)))
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  • Oh hun... I am so sorry that you had such a tough day! I have all my fingers crossed that tomorrow's news it excellent.
    DX: Severe MFI 
    IVF # 1 ~ Antagonist ~ ER 1/27/11~ ET 1/30/11 ~ + HPT 7dp3dt 
    DD born med-free on 10/24/11 
    Lilypie - (lZjk)
    IVF # 2 ~Antagonist ~ ER 6/5/13 ~ ET 6/10/13 ~ + HPT 4dp5dt 
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  • Oh my goodness Jamie, I am so sorry you had to go through all of that!

    Good luck sweetie.  It really does only take one!  Big ((hugs))

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  • I am so sorry you had such an awful ER. I am keeping my fingers crossed for an awesome fert report tomorrow.


    After 4 years, 3 failed IUIs and 2 failed IVFs our surprise miracle is here!
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    TTC # 2 BFP 03/02/13 = CP, BFP 05/14/13 = CP, BFP 08/09/13 = CP

    RPL testing = normal

    TI Cycle #1, 50 clomid days 3-7, 150 iu Follistim days 8-11 = BFP! EDD May 22, 2014

    Betas: 13 DPO = 79, 15 DPO = 149, 19 DPO = 788, 22 DPO = 2031

  • You ladies are the absolute best! I am so thankful to have this as an escape/ support system! Luv y'all!!
    Married '02, TTC May '05

    Dx -Ute cancer, DOR from cancer treatments, and embryo quality issues. NOV 2010 CANCER FREE
    2005-2011= 3 Rounds of Clomid, 5 IUI's, 3 IVF's- ALL BFN's
    After 7yrs TTC, 5yrs of ute cancer, and 11 failed IF treatments, we got a surprise BFP! So thankful!

    Gemma Grace born 09/30/12

    Phillipians 4:6,7

  • That sounds awful girl!  You are so strong.  Hang in there and I hope your embies are doing awesome.
    Diagnosis: DOR and MFI-low everything IVF #1 = triplets! 2 girls and a boy! Born Sept 29, 2011 at 32w6d due to Pre-e and HELLP syndrome Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • oh my goodness gracious, you poor thing. i can't imagine going through what you did today. you are so strong!

    i hope those three that they were able to get were mature and are fertilizing as i type. ((HUGS))

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  • Wow, that just sounds awful. I am sorry you had to go through that. Fingers crossed you have 3 rockstars.
    After 3 years of infertility we were blessed with twin girls through private infant adoption.
    Forever our's October 17th 2012
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • Wow, I am SO sorry for that horribly painful experience. You are one brave girl.

    I'm excited to hear your fert report and until then...rest up please ;) you deserve a ton of rest and hugs!  

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  • Oh,Jamie, I'm so sorry you had to go through that ! I'm keeping my fingers & toes crossed that you will get a fantastic fert report and it will make all that pain worth while. {{{hugs}}} Hang in there !


    "Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." -- Dale Carnegie
    "Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time." --Thomas A. Edison
  • I am so sorry that your ER was like that. But I'm rooting for your three eggies!  
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  • OMG, i am so so sorry you had to be awake for your ER, i cant imagine! it only takes 1 so hopefully you will have some rockstar embies. cant wait to hear your fert report.
    ::PAIF/SAIF Welcome::

    TTC since July 2008
    IUI 1,2,3 BFN
    IVF #1 C/P, FET 1,2,3 BFN
    IVF#2 BFP

    it's a girl!!

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  • That is terrible that you had to go through that awake!  

    I hope those lucky three fertilize and grow big and strong for you!

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    TTC #1 since Oct 2006 with severe MFI.
    Summer/Fall 2011 - DH on clomid. Helped with morphology and motility, but count still under 1 million.
    February 2011 - First RE appointment to discuss options.
    March 2011 - We aren't sure what we are going to do right now. DH isn't sure about DS.
    ~SAIFW~
  • OMG Jamie!! I am so, so sorry! What a terrible experience! You poor thing :( I'm sending you terrific three big fertilizing and growing vibes! Huge (((HUGS)))
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  • Oh Jamie...I'm so sorry you had to go through that...I'm fighting back tears just thinking about it! You're so brave to go through with that...I'm hoping and praying that you get a fantastic fert report with your 3 superstars!
    TTC 12/2009
    Me: 32 - Stage II Endo / DH: 36 - Low count and morphology (1%)
    IUIs 1-3 BFN, lap Dec. 2010, IUIs 4-6 BFN
    IVF w/ICSI #1 - ER 2/8: 24R 19M 9F ET 2/13 2-5 day blasts (no frosties) = BFP - b/g twins!
    E & C Born 10/19/2012
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  • oh my Lord!!

    that sounds like torture cutie, i'm so sorry you had to endure that.  keep a heating pad on all the time!

    praying hard that you have 3 little rockstar embies growing

    GL & PPV

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    Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
  • Oh no Jamie!! I'm so sorry you had such a painful experience!

    It's good if you can sleep now so the morning will come quicker!! I'll be keeping you in my t&p's! Lots of love!

    {Huge Hugs}

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  • I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that!!! That just sounds terrible. Hoping for a great fert report tomorrow and remember it only takes one!!! 
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  • Wow. I'm sorry your ER was so traumatic -- that sounds awful :(

    I know it's said here all the time, but it really does only take one.  Hang in there!  (((Hugs)))

    Our IVF miracles arrived on 7/20/11 at 37 weeks after 3 weeks of hospital bedrest! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers "Stubbornly persist, and you will find that the limits of your stubbornness go well beyond the stubbornness of your limits." ~Robert Brault
  • OMG!  I can't believe you had to go thru that!  I am praying for a good fert report for you.
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