Does it get easier?

kmn3

I'm sure it does, but dang!  Our loss and my longing to still be carrying our baby is on my mind CONSTANTLY.  I feel like I'm living in a dream!

My brother made a comment today "oh, you'll just forget about it once you have a baby".  Sorry, I don't think I'll EVER forget about our experience

lavril

I hope the pain goes away someday and is replaced by the joyful memories of sharing the precious time we had with our little ones.  I think it gets easier over time, but we will never forget.

Whitbell

While it does get easier, it hadn't gone away for me.  I m/c at 7w6d on June 18.  Time does help with pain but there probably wasn't a day that went by I didn't think about that baby. That I didn't long for that baby and. figure out how far along I should be.  Now with me currently waiting on another m/c it brings all kinds of memories back and it is like I am reliving it again.  I should be delivering a baby this month but I am waiting on another m/c

 

I pray that it gets easier as the days go by.  I pray that it gets easier for us all.

Vane5/06

I am sorry for your loss. I also had family members that made those kind of comments an though im blessed with a child now there is not a day that goes by that i dont think of my baby that never made it=( . Hugs 

MegMeg0913

I think we might get numb at first.  Sometime after that we find some sort of comfort and peace.  I can't wait for the day that we all can find that place were the pain and sadness that we are dealing with is not longer a daily battle.

I don't think that people who have had to deal with this kind of loss can ever understand the way that we are forever changed.  That does not excuse the comments but I think remembering that will help us all stay sane.